Why do guys always want to "One Up Me" when I OUTCAST MYSELF?

I don't like people in general... I'm also pretty darn unattractive...& have massive anger issues

So I just ostracize myself & do my own thang but time & time again... MANY dudes have gone out of their way to try to start shit with me

Im not even getting laid or female validation
I can't even hold a job down either

Don't see how I would even be on anybody's radar
Why do guys always want to "One Up Me" when I OUTCAST MYSELF?
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