Can you really just dump someone and not care?

[Anonymous]

I was with my ex for 3 years. He dumped me stating that I argued too much. Throughout the relationship he body shamed me, warned me that people from his church may something about my weight but still wanted me to attend, and also admired Victoria Secret and Instagram models but acted like I was just a body to him. When I really started to speak up about it all he got frustrated and left me. When I gave him his stuff back he said that he would always love me but how?

[Kittycurious]

I went through something similiar. The disrespect. Multiple examples. He was apologetic. Not an ass. But trust had been diminished with each event. I became argumentative. Then he broke up with me for my lack of trust. Hard not to still care

[20yearsolder]

Here's my opinion, sure, when you're finally fed up with their shit. Now let's move on to the more important thing, why the fuck do you care? Someone that body shames you, only treats you as a body? Fuck him. You're better off without him. Find somebody that loves you for being yourself, someone that loves you for the size and shape that you are right now.