Ex willing to meet even though in avrelationship should I go he only wants to meet out?

[Anonymous]

For coffee. I dont think ill benifit from it, what do you think?

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Ex willing to meet me even though he’s in a relationship*

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Why do you want to meet up with your ex? Other than to try to get back with him? And if he's clearly in a relationship with someone else, and you know that, why would you? Let him be, and move on...

[AndrewMG]

Depends on how much you love coffee, I mean if you do it's a win/win but if you don't it's still a free coffee on the way and then an escape... I mean it's a coffee addicts dream! lol

[bowenw]

If you're happy in your current relationship I don't believe you need to meet with your ex.

[Asker]

Bot in a relationship i said he is

[Asker]

Not*

[bowenw]

I don't think you should meet with him unless you want to get back together with him.

[Asker]

Well i do but he is telling me he’s already in a relationship. I asked if we can meet and he said yes we could meet for coffee and only outside. So he’s making it very formal… is it a waste of time?

[bowenw]

If it sounds like he is not interested you are likely wasting your time.

[Asker]

Yes i think i am so im not going

[DaveToo]

Girl, if he's in a relationship, this isn't a contest. He obviously wants more than coffee and unless you're willing to satisfy his lust, steer clear.

[Asker]

What why you think so? He dosent want to meet inside my place only outside

[DaveToo]

I'm just an old-fashioned guy. If a man has a relationship with someone, he needs to spend every available moment with that lady. If you were his lady, and he didn't spend his every waking moment with you, how would you feel?

[Mark987]

Are you two still friends? if yes there is no harm. If it is about of the blue it's kinda weird

[Asker]

Blue?

[Mark987]

meaning out of the blue if he just messaged you... just out of no where that is weird

[TallAnon]

Sounds like a disappointment in the making.

[Asker]

Why he accepting to meet

[TallAnon]

Quick fuck?

[Asker]

No he dosent want to meet at my place..

[TallAnon]

Because you wouldn't accept, he needs to put the moves on first.

[Asker]

He said i prefer we go out:)

[Siren777]

Don't do it. It's a trap.

[ragooo8]

Yeah he wants to bang you on the side.