Should I assume this guy doesn’t want to meet up again?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been speaking to someone from bumble via text for around 3 weeks, I think last weekend he initiated wanting to meet up this Saturday (today). We haven’t been speaking as consistently this week, it was usually daily outreach. This week, there were times were I felt like another response from me wasn’t needed, I ran out of things to speak about. The last time I heard from him was Thursday, he is usually the first to see my Snapchat stories. I posted one yesterday morning and he didn’t view it until later in the day, I’m assuming he isn’t interested any longer. I don’t want to initiate going out today, when he asked about it last week he said he was going to sort out the reservation. If it was still going to happen, I feel like a time to meet would have been sorted out now.

He wants to meet up

He doesn’t want to meet up

[Carolus]

Life isn’t linear, shit happens all the time, give him time, he has a life and might be in the middle of some shit right now, that’s why. Practice patience and avoid always jumping into conclusions, that will reduce disappointments in life. It’s a risk and not a guarantee that things will work out, so don’t stress over such. Even when in a relationship, you can’t be opinionated or have a rigid stand about stuff, it will ruin your relationship. For example, just because a man hasn’t answered a call doesn’t mean he’s with another woman like most women believe, it’s never always black or white, sometimes it’s grey.

[Asker]

It’s already 2PM by me, if he was interested he would have planned by now

[Sam_The_Savage]

You come up with same question again?

[Asker]

There was an update from yesterday

[Sam_The_Savage]

Baby it's same.
Don't take stressed 😘