Would you rather cheat or be cheated on?

[Anonymous]

Would you rather catch your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating on you or would you rather they caught you cheating with someone

[ShootingStar5]

I guess I'd rather be the one doing the cheating. But in reality, that would never happen lol. I love and respect my boyfriend too much for that. I'd break up before I'd cheat. And I'd be heartbroken if I ever found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. It would make it hard for me to trust guys afterward because my boyfriend really doesn't seem like the type who would do that.

[GleeLover]

Both would be terrible, but I'd choose to be cheated on rather than cheat. Being cheated on doesn't mean there is something wrong with me & I can just leave that person. But if I cheat on someone, that says something terrible about me. I'd rather know I'm a good person at the end of the day than get the better of someone.

[imperatriz]

Of course I'd rather cheat. Being cheated on is usually very hard to deal with.

[BCRanger10]

I'd rather be cheated on. I'd be hurt, but at least I wouldn't be the scumbag.

[SnackG]

Be cheated on. First one to actually answer. :D

[Asker]

I know right? lol.

I know both are sucky options, but everyone else is avoiding the question

[SnackG]

I hate when that happens. Thanks for BA. :)

[EngineeringStudent]

I'd rather be cheated on, as much as it would suck, at least I wouldn't feel guilty.

[Anonymous]

I would rather be cheated on than do the cheating that way I don,t fill guilty and i,m the one that cheated

[Anonymous]

Uh, let's see. If I get cheated on, all I get is misery and depression. If I'm the one who cheated, I get an orgasm too (or several). Hmmm. . . which to choose. . .

[Shaun]

I'd rather be single.

[Anonymous]

Cheated on so I know his true colors and leave!

[italykam]

Neither. Both of them are crappy.

[MsJuleya]

lol have to agree with shaun I rather be single

[Anonymous]

I rather cheat..:/