I have been in a relationship with that Gemini chick for the past 6 months. The starting months were passionate and exciting but gradually I began to suspect her of having another boyfriend apart from me. She used to say that we were 'husband and wife'. At times she used to manipulate me to convert to Islam but I resisted because my religion in serious decline.
She used to take care of me. She used to tell me 'I love you' so many times. At times, we used to argue much, talked much on whatsapp but ever since the ramadan fasting, she began to be distant from me. At first, I thought it was natural as she was fasting but as soon as Eid ended, she kept her distance from me. We communicated less and less on whatsapp. Even during the fasting month, she was considering of breaking up with me so that she could commit to that other guy who she claims she would marry him. It will be an arranged marriage as per she said. What's strange is that Whatsapp is the only social media via which we communicate; no Facebook, no Instagram, etc...
Knowing her personality to be gossipy, breaking up with her and ghosting her will seem almost impossible because though I may be right, she may prove me wrong at my workplace. To note that we are basically colleagues. She made the first step. She made advances to which God knows why I accepted. In case she breaks up with me or vice-versa, it will be impossible for me to work with her. I am considering to leave my job in order to forget her.
Can anyone advise me what's the best exit strategy in that case?
She used to take care of me. She used to tell me 'I love you' so many times. At times, we used to argue much, talked much on whatsapp but ever since the ramadan fasting, she began to be distant from me. At first, I thought it was natural as she was fasting but as soon as Eid ended, she kept her distance from me. We communicated less and less on whatsapp. Even during the fasting month, she was considering of breaking up with me so that she could commit to that other guy who she claims she would marry him. It will be an arranged marriage as per she said. What's strange is that Whatsapp is the only social media via which we communicate; no Facebook, no Instagram, etc...
Knowing her personality to be gossipy, breaking up with her and ghosting her will seem almost impossible because though I may be right, she may prove me wrong at my workplace. To note that we are basically colleagues. She made the first step. She made advances to which God knows why I accepted. In case she breaks up with me or vice-versa, it will be impossible for me to work with her. I am considering to leave my job in order to forget her.
Can anyone advise me what's the best exit strategy in that case?
