Has anyone ever gone back to their ex?

[Anonymous]

If so, why did you decide to do that and what happened once you went back? Was it a good idea or a bad idea and why?

[avony12]

Yes I have. I have gotten back with my ex 3 times in the course of one year. It was good at the start then he started slipping up every single time. He kept breaking up with me every single time something went wrong. One month we have 3 huge arguments and by then I was already drained and unhappy which made it more easier to leave.

[mandyfire98]

Yeah we split for about a month and a half. We just felt it was necessary because we weren't getting along. So we decided to give each other space.

[Asker]

Are you guys back together now?

[mandyfire98]

No that was a couple years ago. We got back together after that month break but ultimately it ended up not working out.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Once when I was in my teens. Worst thing I ever did.

Why? Because I loved her so much that I forgave her and she used it against me to make my life a living hell. It took me almost a MONTH to get over her.

[Asker]

What did she do at the time, if you don't mind me asking?

[TommyMountainFigure]

She doinked my then best friend knowing I would find them! I like an idiot forgave her and found out about a week after I forgave her, she'd laughed about it to her friends also.

[Asker]

That's pretty low of her and of your best friend too, No offence.

[TommyMountainFigure]

None taken. It helped make me into the person I am today and I really like me, so despite how disgusted I was with both of them, I wouldn't change it.

[Asker]

That's how I see it as well. Good job for being strong.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you :) I appreciate that.

[Asker]

You're welcome! :D

[TommyMountainFigure]

Hold on.. How did you get the full smile? I only managed the slight smile lol.. I don't know how these little emote things work unless knowing the shortcuts

[Asker]

This ":D"

[TommyMountainFigure]

Let's try.. and thanks again.. :D

[TommyMountainFigure]

wooo. lol I'm such a child sometimes!!!

[one1wild00]

Yes, thought I'd give her another chance, then once I did I remembered why I left.

[Asker]

What happened and you left, if you don't mind me asking? Was it due to the same reasons when you guys first broke up?

[one1wild00]

Yes, I left a second time for the same reasons. I liked her, but she wasn't really Wife or even girlfriend material considering the type of girl I was looking for. I'm sure she has found someone that IS a good match for her.

[Asker]

At least you see things in a positive light, even after all of that stuff happened.

[one1wild00]

I do my best to see the good in others.

[Asker]

Me too, but the negatives should also be paid attention to for what you don't want in your future relationship too. :)

[one1wild00]

You are right there.

[one1wild00]

Sounds like you had a recycled relationship yourself?

[Asker]

I learnt from experience, I guess. Recycled as in?

[one1wild00]

Two relationships with the same person I figure is a recycled relationship.

[Asker]

No, I had one. However, I was questioning about going back.

[one1wild00]

USUALLY, not always its a very bad idea and you would just be wasting your time and part of your life you can't get back if you do.

[Asker]

I think you can. Just break up again if you find out that you're not happy haha.

[Zygum]

When people find new partner is not better than ex, so they go to exs again

[Asker]

It's not just that. Maybe they realised that they made a mistake.

[Zygum]

Yes, agree