How to physically glow up after a break up?

[Anonymous]

My ex is an asshole, it hasn’t been a week and he’s already pretending his talking to girls. Anyway any ideas?

[Anonymous]

I am assuming you mean like a makeover or something.


I don’t know - people break up and handle it differently.


For me, I threw myself into my work. There weren’t any women, clubs aren’t my thing, and they’re expensive, and I’d probably feel bad after - getting rejected constantly. So I’d just get into my work.


Some people swear by going out. Some swear by going out with friends - and ignoring the guys (or girls) for a while.


Some swear by trying to get hit on as much as possible. I think this is the weakest way of coping, if someone isn’t good with flirting/attracting others - because when you get rejected or someone doesn’t think you look “fine” it doesn’t help the esteem.


Going out can work, if you’re honestly more focused on having fun and getting out of a funk. So by all means, do the makeup, dress up - wear something you like that you feel more confident in, and just go have fun - do a girls night. Or, just stay in with your ladies and watch Netflix or rent a movie if you want. Just relax being single, enjoy the stuff you couldn’t do in a relationship.



And don’t worry about the ex. It’s quality over quantity.


As far flow up tips, I don’t know - just find stuff you like to do and nice outfits that you feel good about wearing, if you don’t know makeup, get a friend to help. Have a ladies night and have fun.

[NathanDavis]

I think that happens when you're genuinely relieved and over the past... lol

if you remain obsessed and salty about it, not so much...

[Asker]

It hasn’t been a week after our break up and he posted on Instagram captioning “hoe hopping”

[NathanDavis]

and you care... why?

did he break up with you?

dd you break up with him?

was it mutual?

[Asker]

Mmmm he broke up with me for the dumbest reason.

[NathanDavis]

and him, being a complete dumbass...

that would be the best reason for you to let it go, and move on

[Birdlegs]

Hit the gym like the rest of us