If a man is engaged, what reason would he have to be upset if a female wanted to move on?

[Daejana]

My ex is engaged but he won’t compromise on a schedule for our children because I plan to move on. Why would that be? It’s clear he made a decision on where he wants to be but clearly doesn’t want me to do the same.

[spartan55]

So take him to court and get the schedule you want. Stop wasting energy on WHY. It doesn't matter.

[Daejana]

You just wanted to say something negative so bad that you didn’t even care to think before speaking huh?

[spartan55]

What are you talking about? How is taking him court for your benefit and your child's a negative statement? My second statement is true. Explain how knowing WHY helps you at all?

[Daejana]

Why would I take him to court for visitation when the children are with me? Shouldn’t he be the one to take me to court? I don’t believe in forcing a parent to be involved in a child’s life.

[spartan55]

You didn't say that. If the children are with you then you have the scheduling leverage over him. He sounds like a real treat.

[Daejana]

My point exactly

[Nahid1707]

You should move on yes