How do I patch things up with my ex girlfriend without her thinking I want to get back together?

JoeB22
Ladies, I recently had a rough break up with my girlfriend of over a year. We really loved each other, but due to various things, she left me. Some of the reasons for the break up were :

- Getting comfortable after living together for 4 months

- Neglect due to comfort

- She said we weren't excited to see each other anymore

- She lost the attraction to me

Full disclosure - I was really in love with her and did everything wrong after she left. I argued, cried, contacted her family, and basically bothered her enough to get blocked on gmail, Facebook, and probably from her phone. She called me obsessive and clingy, as well as 'seemingly crazy'. I have to admit that she was right. Living in our apartment alone had me really messed up.

I guess my question is how do I get to a place where I can show her that I still love her w/o her thinking its all a scheme to get her back. I really do care about her and would like to know how she is. It has been tough, but I do see that we don't work as a couple. I just hope its not too late to ever speak to her again.

*The last thing she said to me was that I was no longer allowed to ask her how she feels and just contact her whenever I feel like it. She said that I was pushing her further and further away.

This girl thought the world of me as a person, so I think eventually there is hope to talk again.

Well, what do you think?
How do I patch things up with my ex girlfriend without her thinking I want to get back together?
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