What do you do if your ex is making the breakup more difficult than it needs to be (voicemail included in update)?

[Anonymous]

We broke up on good terms and she messaged me asking if we were still going to talk and I told her no because I needed to move on and she flipped out thinking I was meaning forever when I just meant for now. I will post down below in update I’m my YouTube channel.

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[Screenwriter]

What do you mean you're breaking up just for now? Do you actually mean you want to take a BREAK FROM THE RELATIONSHIP, which is temporary?

You're calling this woman you "ex." Ex means you're done. Not on a break. You CANNOT HAVE IT BOTH WAYS!!!

[Asker]

I said a break but now I’m confused and want a break up

[Screenwriter]

OK, well then you can understand why she's upset. You just have to bear her being upset and move on. She's not going to be happy. Someone usually isn't.

[WhitneySnow]

Call her back. Make it clear that you’re just taking a break, not breaking up for real.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why wouldn't you go no contact forever? That is what helps people to move forward with their lives. Holding on to an ex is a great way to tell other girls that you are not really available for move forward. And how abot when she starts dating someone else and mentions that the new guy spent the night with her. Do you really want to here all of that? Gonna attend their wedding? Come on!

[dynamicyandere]

Damn. If it wasn’t meant to be a permanent break before, I’d consider making it permanent after hearing that. Being with her sounds like it would be super dysfunctional.

[Marshymallow]

Some exes are crazy, they don’t know when to stop. I just block them everywhere and move on with my life. I don’t have the time to argue with people continuously

[Guy13]

Sometimes you hav e to make a very clean break. I know people who had to move out of one town and get a PO Box for mail... women can be crazy sometimes.

[sheikalana]

Jesus Christ move on an run away for ever. Who wants to be with someone who yells at you like that. I wish I haven't listened to that audio.

[Agape93]

It's not up to them. If I say we are done, we are done. End of story.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Dude what the hell happened here? my ears hurt lol... Did you break up with her or just ghost her? are you really a liar and a manipulator? Lol

[annabananna]

Go no contact and give it time. Unless she is very mentally unstable she will eventually let you go.

[pankyvic]

Just end it be done not gonna gt anywhere thts y it's a BREAKUP DAMIT!!

[BubbaTech]

Dang. You got out just in time.

[melanieeeB]

Ignore and block

[Redhead999]

Run...

[baserunner611]

Wow wow wow