Do they actually have abandonment issues when they dump you?

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

long story short, she claimed she had abandonment issues but ended up mistreating me and constantly dumped me and begged for me to take her back...

We dated 4 years, but after the last dumping, I just blocked her on everything

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she’s being honest about having abandonment issues. I also used to struggle with it, I resorted to dumping my boyfriend “first” bc I was scared that he’s gonna dump me later so I thought “I have to dump him before I get dumped”. That’s probably what’s also going on in her head. Pretty messed up, I’m glad you managed to walk away otherwise she’ll never learn to cope with her issues.

[Bee-Hatch]

Dude what is wrong with you? Take back someone once I can just about understand. But multiple times over a period of time. Walk away it's just not worth it.

[Fireguy17]

Abandonment, regrets, second thoughts, the fear that no one else will want them, fear of being alone are pretty much one and the same.

[Guy13]

Sounds like she is not a stable lady. Did you two of her sit with a counselor

[Exterminatore]

Sounds like you found a person with Borderline personality disorder.


They’re all kinds of messed up.

[Sarahplus2]

She has issues. Don't go back.