Would you allow your Ex To see his children and be involved in the kids lives if he Makes an effort?

[Jaguarheart12]

Yes I won't deprive the children from having a Father

No, because I am the woman and I make the Rules

[Drumlin2001]

What a sad question. Why is there an assumption that a mother gets to pick and choose if a kid has a dad or not. As a society we should move to an assumption of equal custody unless there is a material reason not to.

[Jaguarheart12]

It is Often feminist Attorneys that issue that the Mother ( her Clients) obtain full advantage and custody of the children

[Jaguarheart12]

When it comes to having children with women it's a Risk

[Jaguarheart12]

But the human race must continue I suppose

[Avicenna]

That is usually required by law, and should of course be given to the other parent. It hurts the kids most of all if a parent plays "keep away".

[Jaguarheart12]

Women want revenge or act out of Plain Spite. They have an Agenda and they will use the kids as Pawns to achieve that Agenda

[Avicenna]

Unfortunately, lots of them are like that, but obviously many are not.

[Jaguarheart12]

But how would we know who is like that or who is not?
Because the kindest women in the world 🌎 would do it.
And the Most wicked women in her heart wouldn't do it so how would you know who would or Who would not? It's a gamble especially when children are involved and are in the middle of it all

[Jaguarheart12]

I'm not saying wicked women are good or kind Women are wicked I'm using an example of how some people are these days

[Avicenna]

People need to choose their partners well

[msc545]

What is this "effort" shit? He is the FATHER!