Would you allow your Ex to be part of his children's lives if he made an effort?

[EricaParruzzo]

It's no secret, this a fatherless generation we are living in. Too many people have brown up without their father's in their lives. And nothing is being done to fix the problem. Nobody cares about finding solutions because people don't want to deal with baby daddy drama. So to avoid baby daddy drama some girls just cut yhe dad off to spare her the energy. No baby daddy means she doesn't have to deal Bickering, petty arguments, fighting, begging bim to pull his weight, knit picking from his side, his parenting style that doesn't align with your parenting style and much much that this post alone isn't enough to cover. With that said, if some Fair arrangement is made that doesn't involve you having to see him face to face. But that still allowed for him to see his children when it's his week with the kids. Would you allow him to be part if his kids lives?

I would allow it

No, I wouldn't

[HollyK21]

Whether she allows it or not won’t matter if the dad takes her to court, assuming he wants to be active in the children’s lives.

[EricaParruzzo]

Some people jump the court dates and skip town others don't bother ti show in court because she feels she's right and he's wrong shlo she doesn't show up fornthe bearing

[HollyK21]

I know those things happen, I’ve witnessed it myself, but usually in those cases the father isn’t active. A father who is actively involved in his kids life is not going to allow the mom to run off with his kid or kids without a hard fight. Before you bring up the unfairness men usually face in courts, I know it happens. But that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t try and it doesn’t mean they won’t win. Courts who see his involvement will usually work with him.

I had someone in my life have to fight for his child and won each time, but that was after meeting his wife and her instilling the confidence in him to go against what the baby mama wants. The BM ran the show, she was spiteful, hard to work with and he did everything her way out of fear she would run off. He got everything squared away once his wife got involved.

[strateguy632]

I would

[eagle1951]

yeah