Can a breakup f*ck up your job performance?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with someone I loved to the core of my heart and it's terrible. 💔

Tomorrow I'm supposed to go to work after finishing a task and I'm still crying since late evening. I miss him so much.

How can I just focus and be prepared for tomorrow? 😭

I just want to spend two days to mourn but can't do that as I have work responsibilities.

[Iron_Man]

It's almost impossible to go to work after a break up with somebody you love. It took me 3 years to get over my last girlfriend before I could move on

[Asker]

Woah. 3 years! Sorry to hear that :(... I had to cut off this guy, he was a player behind my back but he emotionally manipulated me. He never let me go but in between he used to joke "It's a long distance so there will be a time where we won't talk anymore". Then I told him, if u want timepass then I'm leaving now... what's the point to date when there's no future? Then he begged, again manipulated me and made fake promises that how much he loves me..
... I cut him off today because I sensed his words were empty.

[Asker]

But i was crying too much and wished that he was the loyal one and wished to spend my life with him.

[Iron_Man]

That's all horrible I'm so sorry to hear that

[Asker]

Yeah at first he says everyone is bound to leave. Then later when I told him let's leave NOW and don't waste anymore time, he suddenly changed his words and said "we both should try and we both will be forever, I'm sorry for saying that but now we're forever and won't ever bring the topic of separation".. His other lies were "you're the only girl I talk to".

[Iron_Man]

he's probably a player

[Asker]

Yes he is... I caught him following and talking to other girls but as soon as I confronted him about the lies, he legit unfollowed all of his favorite models. (But I never told him to unfollow them). He will literally emotionally gaslight me to stay. BUT THIS TIME I seriously GOT PHYSICAL headache after talking to him, so I decided to cut off the player.

[Iron_Man]

I’m so sorry

[ArtemisSilver]

Yes it can. You could ask for some leave, just tell them it's bereavement/, mental health.

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[Anonymous]

It shouldn't.