Do fearful avoidants cry when dumping someone?

[sabotage22]

I never saw her cry until she dumped me. I realized my mistakes almost instantly and work on them. Not in order to get her back, but not to hurt anyone this way. I am just curious if fearful avoidants (which I believe she was) do this, or I am completely off when trying to assess her attachment style.

[Guy13]

Women do not like to fail especially in the Relationship department given they see themselves as generally Relational in Nature.

Any woman I know, who will actually let you see her tears in this world, is likely Done ✅… exhausted and public admittance of Failed…go on and don’t come back if she’s let you seen her cry.

[On_cloud_wine]

Yes they do.. i cried uncontrollably before I cut contact… he has no idea

[sabotage22]

I am sorry for that. After I grasped how she must have suffered because of my communication style (calm, but she must have felt like I blame her for making me feel bad, which was not so dramatic as she saw it) I felt horrible. I am really working on bettering myself in this regard. Like I said, not in order to get her back. But I somehow still think I could be a better partner also for her. If you saw a ganuine effort and change in him, would you reconsider?

[On_cloud_wine]

Did you at one point tell her that the way she was acting made you feel as if you did something wrong?

[sabotage22]

not really, or maybe: I told her that at some point that due to several reasons I felt neglected by her on our hoiday and by a huge exaggeration it might have been received as if I felt that she took advantage of me to get where she wanted.
afterwards, when we were trying to resolve the situation, I became also a bit vigilant on signals from her. When she did or said something I would not normally expect, I asked if there is a signal I should take from that (avoiding phone calls for example), because she has told me before, that she does not know what is going on in my head sometimes, and that I should talk to her about my feelings rather than just keeping them for myself and expressing behavioral changes.