Why do some people scare someone who wants to leave a relationship?

[Anonymous]

They say things like, your next one might beat you or abuse you when you're not even happy in the relationship that you're in

Then I double back and back down like maybe he isn't so bad... then triggers me a couple of months down the road. Its a vicious cycle

[AI Opinion]

Navigating love can be tricky! 🚴‍♂️ Those scare tactics are emotional manipulation, a red flag of insecurity. People might do it to maintain control, playing on fears of "what if". Your happiness matters most. If weighing the pros and cons leaves you restless, it might be time to rethink your choices. Trust your gut, and don't let fear keep you from thriving. You deserve the best, gorgeous!💕

[glennos89]

You don't follow/listen to your own inner self. That gut feeling within yourself who is telling you to leave the relationship is the one you should take advise from.

Because you don't follow your own instinct, you allow others to influence you which is making you doubt everything and you set yourself up to be manipulated

[Anonymous]

I was actually abused in several relationships some almost got to the point of them almost physically assaulting me before i left