How can I prepare to divorce my wife without telling her anything?

[Anonymous]

She thinks things are going well

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Ideally I want to serve her the papers, make her sign them and move out the same day.

[ProVox]

I'm amazed how one person in marriage can think things are going well while the other wants out. That has to be crazy. Do you show her no signs of unhappiness? Do you fake your life?

[Asker]

I don't talk to her most of the time

[ProVox]

You only live once, don't waste it being unhappy. But if you have kids, that changes things.

[Guy13]

That’s a frightening approach. You need to sit with a Pastor. It can't be that bad. Why ⁉️

[Asker]

I feel like I'm wasting my best years with her

[Guy13]

In what way. What is the best or better scenario for you please ⁉️

[Asker]

Me living without her

[Guy13]

Alright. Probably a PI and an attorney...

[ALPHABLACK]

See a lawyer but before that see a Chartered accountant, will all your property and finance to someone whom you can trust then file a divorce after the divorce get back everything from that person

[Andres77]

Dude, that’s fucked up.

you better not have kids. Karma will fuqing destroy you

[Missgingles]

Why do you wanna divorce her?

[Asker]

I think I'm wasting my best years with her

[Missgingles]

Okay. So you wanna have fun with other women? Do you still love her?

[Asker]

I don't care and don't want other women
I don't love her

[Missgingles]

Alright well. Why not tell her? Or if you are in America I'd suggest you make her sign a prenup before you divorce her.

[Missgingles]

What made you stop loving her? Is it something she did?

[Jojojojojojojo]

Why did u marry her then?

[humanearth]

Better off telling her,

[msc545]

Talk to your attorney.

[boggboss]

Why lol

[Asker]

I'm wasting my best years with her

[boggboss]

But why do it secretive are things that shit that u canr be upfront

[Asker]

She would try to stop me
I want to serve her the papers and make her sign them

[boggboss]

She had a right to try to stop u why would u marry her and then try to divorce her in secret do u understand how dumb this sounds

[Asker]

I'm done with her and last I heard divorce is a right so

[boggboss]

Ofc it is nibody is saying its not but doing it in secret is shitty I don't see how your going to get her to sign a divorce when your hiding it from her what u think you gonna do surprise her with ot and she will happily sign it

[Hotboy_booblover]

It's not easy bro.. u have tough time ahead

[In_Trance]

You have to tell her