I meant to make this a poll, which scenario is worse?

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  • Both are awful (obviously) but my friend refuses to acknowledge what I feel is the worse scenario and I need unbiased opinions to show perspective. Thanks!
A married person with 2 children cheats on their partner for several years with a consenting side piece and both successfully keep it a secret and maintain a friendship behind a the side pieces new partner and the spouses backs
A non married person in a non-physical relationship cheats for several months with an unaware side piece but tells the partner once the other has found out, ending both relationships.
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I meant to make this a poll, which scenario is worse?
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