How to apologize to a ex?

[Anonymous]

I’ll get straight to the point me and my ex broke up, but about a month later we started talking again, but he only talked to me when he was bored or high and drunk asl and it was making me confused and giving me mix signals, then one day he even made a song about me, so one day when he was streaming I decided to test out if he was really serious or playing me and I bought a positive pregnancy test and took a pic of it and told him and showed him it and said I was pregnant. Also I’m sorry about this I was super fucked up and had really bad mental and family issues/trauma Ik better now and know no one should go through this I’m sorry in advance 💕 but back to the story I showed him it and he got his buddies and apologized to me and asked if I was getting a abortion or not and I said no. but a couple months later we still talked but I heard a knock on the door one day and it’s my aunt telling me she found out and told my ex about the fake pregnancy and I didn’t know how to react ofc so the next morning I thought to myself since he knows now he wants me gone because of what I did so I overdosed, my aunt found me on the ground passed out I woke up the next morning realizing that obviously isn’t the answer and that I obviously fucked up and am a pos for what I done and now it’s been a couple months and don’t know how to apologize to him and I hate it please help it’s hurting me not to apologize to him.

[Chris_Morgan]

In my opinion you should distance yourself from your ex because that relationship isn't healthy for you. Also stay away from drugs and alcohol, you need to focus on improving your mental health. The fake pregnancy was a bad trick to pull, but in reality it was just a stupid mistake. Nobody really got hurt and all you can do is try to do better in the future.

[MRME6]

Man you actually give great advice!

[Chris_Morgan]

@MRME6
Thanks.
Sometimes I focus and try my best.

[MRME6]

I'd want to private message you but this app won't allow me
So basically my ex emailed me because I thought I blocked her m. She wants to tell me she's ready to talk.

[Chris_Morgan]

@MRME6
Oh is that the one that dumped you during covid because you wouldn't kiss her? You were worried about getting your vulnerable family member sick right?
Then she got a different guy and you felt terrible.
She's trouble, but I understand the temptation you must have to see her again. It's up to you, but just remember what she's capable of.

[MRME6]

Yes it's that one, she's the only girl I've been in a relationship with I have mixed feelings.

[MRME6]

I know it doesn't mean anything but she removed all the the stories of the new guy on her IG, she showed him off so much I actually wanted to puke. No offense to her but she definitely downgraded.

[Chris_Morgan]

@MRME6
I understand.
I guess it's important to see why she wants to talk now. I imagine she split up with the other guy and now she's interested again? I guess you either roll the dice with this woman who you know isn't the most reliable, or you move on to try with a different one. Ore you stay single.
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[MRME6]

I think I need to stay single for a bit because I'm still young, I'm still growing as a person. I think I'd want to be in a relationship in about 1-2 years but I can't say that a relationship can happen unexpectedly.

[Chris_Morgan]

@MRME6
Good for you man, do whatever you feel comfortable with.
I was the type to stay in crazy, dramatic relationships with women who nearly made me lose my mind, but it was never boring. You just choose your path and try to navigate as best you can.

[Anonymous]

Say what you said, here. If you are texting him. Say: I really need to talk to you, I really need to apologize! I hate that I lied to you, you didn't deserve that.

Just start there

[JustADudePlayinADude]

Is there a TLDR?

[In_Trance]

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