Help, I miss her but she did me wrong?

[Anonymous]

I really liked her. We had a fight cause she thought I was playing cool (in fact she was doing that) and was mad to me.. and insulted me…

we unfollow each other… but before some days she reached me out wishing me well and repenting for her behavior..

i dont know what to do.. Im not replying to her.. but I miss her and im mad to her in the same time

[WonderBell99]

We need more context. You could update your question to explain what exactly happened. You can do so by using the small "update" box below. Or you could also reply to my opinion.

Who started the fight? I'm not sure what you mean by "playing it cool". Don't most people play it cool around someone they like during the initial stages of dating? The term could mean two things: she either thought you were not interested and stringing her along OR you did not want to come across as desperate and took things in a slow pace. Why was she mad at you for no reason? Did you ghost her? Or act distant?

I cannot really say who is in the wrong without knowing more. If she threw a tantrum over something very petty, then she may have been in the wrong or you could be in the wrong for acting distant and closed off. Or this could just be all a big misunderstanding.

[Asker]

Thank u for ur answer! I think that will help me.. please can u send me a mesaage, i can tell other details.. i need ur help

[WonderBell99]

Since you are anonymous, I’m not able to see your username. You could either share your username in your reply or you could give me a follow (that would notify me and I’d be able to see your username and you’d still get to remain anonymous here). My DMs are open to all. I can DM you if it is absolutely necessary.

[Asker]

I follow u right now

[WonderBell99]

I’ve sent you a text.

[SueShe]

Define "playing cool".

How can one be upset for playing cool unless this coolness hides things that you are not telling us.

If people have the urge to unfollow others because they played cool, then those people are not really very mature. I am wondering if the age given in your profile is indeed correct because to be honest, this is a childish behavior and is more likely the behavior of a person that is between 12 and 15 years of age but certainly not the one of an adult.

If she needed to block you because you "played cool", then forget about this lady because she is not mature enough to be in a relation.

[Asker]

My age is the right one! Im confused… and even adults when thay are confused they act like children..

Anyway despite any reasons… she offending is the end of any excuse..
If she would receive those insults probably you will be playing the feminist here together

[Iron_Man]

You’re not really explaining the argument why would somebody just flip out and both of you block each other well, like I said, you never really did explain the argument, swallow your pride, and look for her

[Asker]

swallow my pride for her to step into my pride again?
She insulted me badly.. even I don’t know the reason.. Im so unclear..
and Im hurt.. I dont want to be hurt again.. she thinks that after all things Inwill go to persue her again

[Iron_Man]

Things happen people say things they don’t mean

[Guy13]

If you love her try it again⁉️

[Wise4myage]

Consider giving her a second chance.