Did I blow this?

[Lovesick40]

I have been in a long-distance relationship with a man who is going through a lot in regards to stress and divorce. He had been distant for days and I sent a message on Sunday that perhaps it would be best that he work through everything and then circle back to me as I am feeling hurt. I now totally regret it. I sent him a message saying I loved and cared for him and I was sorry. I said I regretted and let my own insecurities get in the way. I have yet to hear from him Have I blown it? I am so sad Should I further explain where I was coming from or has time of death been called on this?

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+1 y

Never heard anything from him

Could I send him a message saying your No response I guess is a response but I am dearly sorry and I love you.

[Havthrills]

It's only been a day. Let it ride for now and see what he answers. He might be busy. I don't know much of the details though.

[Lovesick40]

How long should one wait? I am not a silent treatment kinda person, I rather just talk it out

[Havthrills]

It's been a bit and nothing from him? Yeah. Time to talk it out.

[Lovesick40]

Since this is a long distance relationship I send him a video apology which 5 hours later I got a response..:It’s all good
Perhaps I being too much of a girl but is just trying to shut me up or could be all good

[Havthrills]

Lol. You were worried. Just don't be too clingy. Be just enough. Glad you did that.

[Brando10222]

Be honest about everything with him

[Lovesick40]

Should I wait or send him a message telling him everything

[Brando10222]

Send him a message or call him don't wait

[Brando10222]

Yeah send it. Have you tried calling?

[Lovesick40]

I sent him a message on Tuesday saying I was sorry and why I had said what I said but I regretted and I loved him... No response
We never really spoke on the phone just via messaging. If I wrote this what do you think or does it sound pathetic

"I just wanted to say this one more time how truly sorry I am for what I said. I was feeling insecure and vulnerable and I regret. I really do love you and care for you. I am assuming your no response is my response to this all but I just wanted you to know how special I think you are."

[Lovesick40]

I also do not do well with the silent treatment and wish we could just talk it out. I am a communicator. I want to say that to him but I don't want him to think I am picking at him

[Brando10222]

Just send the first part today. Don't send from "no response is my response ".

If he still doesn't respond then send the 2nd part tomorrow. I know how silent treatment feels. Sorry you have to go through it

[Lovesick40]

Since this is a long distance relationship I send him a video apology which 5 hours later I got a response..:It’s all good
Perhaps I being too much of a girl but is just trying to shut me up or could be all good

[SiberFox]

Wait and see

[Lovesick40]

How long should one wait. I am not a silent treatment kinda person. I rather just talk it out

[SiberFox]

You could also just text "I want to see you".

[Lovesick40]

Since this is a long distance relationship I send him a video apology which 5 hours later I got a response..:It’s all good
Perhaps I being too much of a girl but is just trying to shut me up or could be all good