Doesn't the pain of love, disappointment pass?

[Pisoglal]

Reason for seperation:his family and lack of economic independence,

I am 25. I was a relationship for six years. We broke up a year ego. I could'nt accept it at first. And I suffered a lot. Now I am numb. I'm somewhere between suffering and not suffering. I have ashes left after the fire. It hurts, but he's used to the pain. İs it normally?

[caring__1]

We generally think of our last experience when we think about anything. That's the main reason open caskets at a funeral aren't ideal, as when you think of the person, the first picture that pops into your mind is them laying in the coffin.

Until you replace your boyfriend with a new boyfriend, every time you think of relationships, your mind will automatically shoot to your ex. After you create new memories, those new memories overshadow the old. When people choose to dwell on their past and not let go, new memories don't necessarily overshadow the old. Find ways to resolve your past before getting involved with someone new, so you don't end up projecting the past onto the new person.

[Guy13]

Yes, we are all devastated after break-up but overtime the pain lessens. Like you said your once roaring log fire 🔥 is now ashes.

[nolabels]

Speaking for myself, it diminishes, but never completely passes.

It becomes a part of who you are, sometimes even for the better even though those aspects may not now be apparent.

I wish you peace.

[Avicenna]

It does, but it takes time

[dustybiker]

Healing is a process. It’s different for everyone.

[es20490446e]

Who broke up?

[Pisoglal]

Actually, it's unclear. We argued for a few days. I had an argument with his family and they did irreversible things. I was also in a difficult situation at work. He asked me to reconcile. But I couldn't. Then he tried to break up with my family. When he wasn't convinced at the last, he said be happy and disappeared. There is no place to contact.

[es20490446e]

What irreversible things?