Divorced woman with two kids 9,10 years old?

[Anonymous]

What age does the kids decide who to stay with forever. Right now I have to co parent with somebody I despise hate. And now im divorced some shit how have to text and see him when switching kids off?

So how old do kids got to be

[ConfusedGirl100]

I know someone who was legally allowed to choose who they wanted custody of them at the age of 12. Courts even allowed the 12 year to have their own lawyer and made sure that the mother couldn't influence the child about who they wanted to live with.

[Anonymous]

I think its 16 in most states.

[In_Trance]

15/16

[Asker]

Jeez do late. Stupid!!!