Why did he say that we don't need to be in constant contact but then text me again seconds later?

[Anonymous]

Me and this guy had been getting close, texting constantly for months and had met up a few times. I know he's not much of a texter, but he put in quite a bit of effort and we were getting closer. When trying to organise seeing other again, I noticed he began to make excuses and I told him that if we felt differently then I wasn't comfortable with maintaining this type of contact with him. He agreed and said he sees no reason to remain in constant contact, but as soon as he sent me that message he then goes onto Instagram and replies to our conversation that we had been having a few hours before? I don't quite understand - isn't he completely contradicting what he just said?

[Guy13]

Coming to terms with Emotionality as a young man. If you have not had sex or physical contact THEN this is vary rare. This 💩 is what girls do.

[FilmGuy93]

How is that contradicting what he just said? He said that y’all don’t need to be in constant contact; that’s not the same as leaving an existing conversation unfinished