I don’t know if I should break up with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 years and these past couple of months have been all about arguing. all we do is argue. mostly me. i argue a lot about the past and he argues with me about arguing with him. i can’t deal with it anymore and i don’t know what to do

[Summeroflove]

If you’re not happy. Break up.

[Pyrofox]

I'd say make the big pot of coffee and talk it out before just straight up abandoning the relationship cause otherwise your both at fault for essentially just throwing the relationship out. Plus I can't imagine the relationship going over well if you both have already talked it out about going the next step with family. That is if you really have gone on for 8 YEARS? No offense but thats a long time.

[Asker]

here’s what happened. he DMed girls on instagram complimenting them on how pretty, beautiful and gorgeous they are, he follows and likes a bunch of bikini pictures and he has said so many means things to me when he is drunk. none of what has happened to us gets out of my head. i think about it constantly and i get sad, mad, angry and just fight with him.

[Pyrofox]

I'm not the one you need to chat with ma'am respectfully.