How to get rid of feeling for someone who doesn’t want a relationship?

[Justneedtokno]

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Trying to eliminate that person will only result in you bouncing back to that person after some time. It is just like you trying to get away from some app by uninstalling it, but end up installing it anyway.

I am also looking for answers from others. But I know the above is true.

[VIVANT]

If someone really genuinely does not want a relationship and you confront this fully, hopes leaves and interest follows. I think feeling longer when there is not full acceptance. Once you accept nothing can happen your feelings should naturally dissipate. Is there a chance you don’t believe them?

[AviatorTom]

Replace that someone with someone else and have a relationship with them.

Your original feelings may never completely disappear but your new feelings will override the old ones.

[Summeroflove]

It takes time but it will pass. Just leave him be and eventually you’ll start to like someone new

[Gent207-2]

Memorialized the relationship you lost and embrace the new reality that he is no longer with you.

Don't rush into your next relationship till you process the memories and desensitiz yourself to certain sounds, places and smells. Trust me those flashbacks of the days you were most happy hurt worse than the day he left

[big_ben_007]

Go to your local bar, order a short cocktail. Sip it. And pay attention to people who are there for only fun. Imitate that. Embrace the feeling of chit chatting with fellow people who enjoy well mixed alcoholic beverages, in moderation. Have a light mood, do not try to befriend anyone or get really close to anyone. Just make small talk, ask people what they're drinking and tell yourself I'm gonna have casual friends with no serious bonding to the point of feelings.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

The heart wants what the heart wants & in life the only way to move is forward if two hearts aren’t one.

[Juxtapose]

Eventually you will internalize that for whatever reason, their interest in you is not powerful enough to overcome whatever is in-between you two.

You should find someone who is crazy about you and stays crazy about you.

[msc545]

The best cure for a man or a woman is another man or woman.

[AmeerX]

Just try to think of the flows

[eagle1951]

find someone who does

[legalboxers]

block it out