Should I feel happy that my ex fiance had to send kid to their ex for long time because of karma?

[Anonymous]

• Had been dating single mother for years
• Got engaged, she stopped working, I paid everything
• She cheats, I leave
• She has no money, has to send kid to other parent
• Felt bad about situation, but she took zero accountability
• So felt good

[SueShe]

No, it is nothing to feel happy about...

Remember that it always takes 2 for a relationship to fail. You have your own share of responsibility in the failure, which of course, you fail to tell us.

Also, the children have to pay for the events that happen to your ex. Indirectly, you are happy that the children have to suffer from what is happening to your ex.

If that is karma, then you should really be afraid because karma will get to you too. Perhaps not today nor tomorrow but sooner or later, your karma will leave you and a future ex of yours will have the same blast as you are having now.

[Asker]

Definitely takes two to tango, I played my role. But cheating knowing I'm supporting you and your kid and putting all that at risk with no safety net was ballsy

[Guy13]

It is a natural reaction but I hope it is a good situation for the child in the new environment.

[Asker]

Much better actually. To clarify, I'm happy at pain only in the mom

[Guy13]

I gotcha... but eventually you are going to have to do something with that. It is like you are poisoning yourself but thinking it affects her in some way. You know what I a saying?

[Avicenna]

You shouldn’t have dated a single mom in the first place

[Avicenna]

And supporting a non-working person and someone else’s kid? Crazy. It’s understandable you’d feel some Schadenfreude.

[DiegoO]

Lesson learned. Don't get in with a mom. If you are not a parent yourself, do not do it.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been together for?

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Nope