Why do I still miss my ex?

[Mimi_loves_her]

Why do I still miss my ex That I was obsessing over when I have a girlfriend?

[SnowedIn]

Because, for the most part, there's always something (if not everything) we miss about an ex. There are reasons why they're an ex but there are also reasons why you were with them in the first place and we miss them for those reasons. It's normal to miss the ex -- just don't fixate on it and lose sight of caring for your girlfriend. Also, don't say anything about missing your ex. That stays in your mind, and here on your account on GaG and in your diary.

[Mimi_loves_her]

Ik not to say that type of thing to my girlfriend

[SnowedIn]

... I'm just trying to be helpful.

[Mimi_loves_her]

You are very helpful

[SnowedIn]

:) Thank you. That's my goal.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[Mimi_loves_her]

Your welcome

[boggboss]

Meh because u feel lonely without him around in your life and or constantly think about him

[Mimi_loves_her]

1 her
2. I don’t think of her all the time/ constantly anymore

[boggboss]

Ah apologies her and if u didn't think of her constantly feelings of loss would have lessened

[Mimi_loves_her]

I’m not like obsessing over her but I miss her

[boggboss]

To miss her u would have to be thinking about her which negates the process of moving on

[Mimi_loves_her]

I do think of her sometimes

[boggboss]

Well that would be why u miss her thats the answer to your question

[Mimi_loves_her]

😅😅😅 what-?

[boggboss]

The reason u still miss her is because u think about her

[Mimi_loves_her]

How dose that makes sense

[boggboss]

U can't miss someone u don't think about

[Mimi_loves_her]

But she’s also my best friend how do I not think of her?

[boggboss]

Well there ya go not much u can do

[Mimi_loves_her]

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[boggboss]

Ay relationships with friends is never easy

[kylee2437]

Because you are 13 and don’t know what actual love is yet. When I was your age I was bouncing back and fourth from one “boyfriend” to another and calling it love too.

[Mimi_loves_her]

Ik what love is

[kylee2437]

Trust me when I say this, you don’t.

[Mimi_loves_her]

And I haven’t felt the same since she broke up with me but it was worse when we were dating

[Mimi_loves_her]

And not u don’t need to have sex with someone to love the and u don’t need to love someone to have sex with them

[kylee2437]

In 12 years from now, you are going to look back at this all and laugh, I promise. I’m double your age and can confirm that

[Mimi_loves_her]

Yes I do

[Mimi_loves_her]

And love shouldn’t hurt you

[Mimi_loves_her]

… ur just like most the people irl you don’t understand me

[kylee2437]

I do understand because I was your age Once lol

[Mimi_loves_her]

Ik I’m young like you said and bc I’m only a teen but my mind is well being my years

[kylee2437]

No it’s not lol you are young and think you are in love. It’s normal, but I’m telling you it’s not the end of the world. Even in two years, you will look back and be like wow what was I doing

[Mimi_loves_her]

Like I said my mind is well beyond my years.

[Mimi_loves_her]

Like. Is this my only question I have seen?

[kylee2437]

Maybe it is, but again you are barely in high school. You have a long way to go on how to be able to handle such relationships in a mature manner

[Mimi_loves_her]

And plus if I wanted to I could have sex bc Ik how to but I smart enough I do just do shit like that

[kylee2437]

Well sex isn’t the answer to any of this.

[Mimi_loves_her]

Ik sex isn’t

[Mimi_loves_her]

I was making a statement

[Mimi_loves_her]

Sex or masterbating are not coping skills

[Mimi_loves_her]

And plus who said it was a guy

[Usher55]

@kylee2437 I believe she knows what love is. Her love might "change" over the years, maybe that's what you meant. But for now her love is solid and true!

[kylee2437]

@Usher55 people that know what love is don’t jump from partner to jump lol I’m speaking in realistic manner. It’s perfectly normal to not know what romantic love is at the age of 13 and it’s a sign that her parents need to be involved more in her life because having partners at this age is potentially harmful. 13 and talking about having sex is not normal

[kylee2437]

Partner to partner *

[Usher55]

Alright. Though she did mourn and grief over her I recall. Evidently, the question.
And Probably you're referring to being "loyal" and "faithful" instead? Maybe.

[kylee2437]

I’m referring to being young and naive lol

[Usher55]

But she Is in love! Do you deny that?
Just for the sake of debating.

[Mimi_loves_her]

I’m not naive

[kylee2437]

@Usher55 it’s a situation where when she looks back when she’s at an age where she can actually uphold a grown relationship she’s going to laugh. I do it all the time with my middle school cutesy relationships

[kylee2437]

Actually I’ve been in contact with two people I had stupid young relationships with and we had a good laugh about it.

[Mimi_loves_her]

Yeah they are different people they are not me

[kylee2437]

You won’t know that bc you are 13 and have many years ahead. Too bad your parents aren’t more involved to stop this toxicity

[Mimi_loves_her]

They are so shut up!

[kylee2437]

Nope they aren’t. Your parents should not be allowing you to subject yourself to dating and such at this age. I dated at that age because my parents were also not involved enough either.

[Luffy1990]

You might still have feelings towards your ex. Necer brjng that up with current girlfriend

[Mimi_loves_her]

Why would I tell her

[Mimi_loves_her]

? How is that a good idea?

[Luffy1990]

Well not telling your current girlfriend about feelings towards an ex is disaster waiting to happen. Focus on your current relationship and thors thoughts/feelings will fade

[Mimi_loves_her]

But telling her seems like a disaster

[Luffy1990]

Yeah because if you do that ur current girlfriend might think your gonna her for your Ex.

[Jennz6]

You are still a little girl 👧

[Mimi_loves_her]

I’m not a little girl!

[Preeti161101]

Are you missing

[Mimi_loves_her]

What?