Have you ever gotten back with an ex after you both dated others?

[gayesblog]

Do you believe that it is possible to get back with an ex after both of you dated others?

[OlderAndWiser]

Of course it's possible. But let's ask another question. A much more important question?

Is it a good idea? here are two types of reconciliations. Some couples have a good relationship but they get separated by circumstances that are not related to the quality of their relationship. High school sweethearts go off to different universities many hundred miles apart. Yes, a reconciliation MAY work. But you must remember that all of the things that have happened wile they were separated have changed both of them and what was a good match before may no longer be so good.

Then there are couples who break up because at least one of them thinks the relationship is not worth the effort. When these couples reconcile, they will usually have a brief honeymoon period during which they are excited and possibly have hot sex, but. . . before long, they will encounter the same problems that they previously encountered, and they wll probably break up again (and usually much quicker the second time) for the same reasons. And it was all a quite foreseeable waste of time and energy.

[Guy13]

Not personally but I know many more that have cheated/dated someone else who were married that got back together. I know two people that got divorced and ended up remarrying.

I know zero SO that have gotten back together after straying or breaking up. SO relationships are discardable as one is ultimately single anyway.

[Anemone978]

Well I do think it is possible if after dating others you realize no one is better than the ex so you go back... I also know my sisters cousin went out with this girl for a few years they broke up.. he got with some other girl had 2 kids with her then he went back to the ex and married her and had a son together... so who knows... anything is possible LOL

[prensesmishka]

I did when I was younger. Now I really try to bring my relationships to a conclusion, for this I approach the other party by expressing my thoughts, expectations and feelings more clearly. So in the future I don't think why we're done or that we aren’t done.

[Fireguy17]

sort of yes.
the biggest issues was the distance involved.
her life and career were about 3ish hours away, and my life and business was down here.
it would not have been fair to her to have her give it all up, and I could not move my business to where she lived.
I had another ex that wanted to get back together, but there were some things that went on when we were together, cheating and lying that I didn't think I could forgive.
And I was dating somene else then.
she was really hot, but I just didn't think I could get over the past.
I still kind of wonder to this day what if...

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yes I have... and I used her to get what I needed and then got the fuck out of there. I came back to America and the chick was still sending me shit from Japan... she finally stopped talking to me when I told her I was married and it was cool because my wife lets me fuck chicks. Don't think she liked something about that.

[Bricealan]

She broke off with me, and then months later called. She and I had both fucked others and I liked to hear all the details of her sex with the other guys. Alas we never started going together again and always regretted that. At least the other men were not hung better than me

[Anonymous]

Yes he dumped her. She cried to me. I went over, she was crying so I massaged her back which ended up w her giving me head, then me taking her to jack in the box then leaving after I nailed her nice and hard. But as far as being together together, no.

[NathanDavis]

I never have, and I don't think I ever would

I am sure it is possible because I know of others who've done it and made it work

personally though, not something I would choose, I do have a thing for completing cycles, lol

[melanieeeB]

Yeah once and even tho that last time was the best with him, I still don't recommend it to anyone and I would also never do it again.
There is a reason why you break up the first time and that one should be for good

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes, both of the first two. I really don't think I want number 3. back!!

[DiegoO]

No and is not happening. It was Nevermet and even though we never knew each other well, I rather move on completely.

[Anonymous]

I don't get back with exes. If we broke it off there was a reason. I don't give second chances. If we ended well, she'll ALWAYS be in my heart. Be she will NEVER own it again.

[MONKSKIN1]

No way


That would be dangerous ground if you did

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[OddBeMe]

My lawyer says not to answer.

[LavLavLuv]

nope

[Anonymous]

haven't dated anyone since her

[In_Trance]

never

[PainusNdeeAnus]

That’s nasty