Husband came home from work with glitter on his eye. He had an affair with my best friend, is he still, he says NO?

[Cheaterssuck]

[Guy13]

I’m so sorry. What a horrible situation to be in. Pastor or Counselor perhaps?

[Cheaterssuck]

Thank you! I have an appointment to see a counselor next week. Also, I'm going to think about seeing a pastor. It couldn't hurt.

[Guy13]

You are a smart lady and he is fortunate to have you. I prefer the pastor actually. If I can understand the Biblical expectation then I can usually wrap my hands around things.

I need a Plan so Bible is really helpful and a Pastor ought to know it well when it comes to marriage and possible affairs. Good luck !!

[Anonymous]

do you have actual proof of this "affair" tho or are you just making assumptions about something so minuscule like glitter on his eye?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if you’re ever going to be able to trust him or not worry about cheating. Why not leave him?

[Cheaterssuck]

I'd love to but don't make enough money to live alone.

[Cheaterssuck]

Also, I will never trust him again.

[Opinion Owner]

Start saving. Even if it’s just a bit of money, it will go towards getting away from him. He’s destroyed your relationship and trust by not only cheating but with someone who is so close to you. There’s nothing else to talk about, the damage done and it’s all his fault. You deserve better.

[Cheaterssuck]

Thank you!! Yes, I will start saving today. Really, I truly appreciate your words, they validate the way I feel.

[Opinion Owner]

No worries! Saving sounds super bleak but once you make enough to at least rent a room, get out of there, then keep socking away cash, maybe even look for something that pays more to where you can live on your own. It is a journey but so worth it when you can truly be done with that asshole and find a man who would never cheat let alone in the manner he did. I’m wishing you all the luck this year!☺️❤️

[Gent207-2]

Glitter is hardly proof of an affair. Evidence to suggest he visited a strip club, possibly. What other evidence do you have?

[Gent207-2]

@Hsifbgbfnf okay wow case closed
I hope the divorce or break up lands in your favor.

[Cheaterssuck]

There's so much but it would take a month to write it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Nah, he was probably at a strip club. You need to work harder at keeping his attention.

[Cheaterssuck]

That's the thing, I had always worked hard at keeping his attention but now I just don't care, except that it has cost me a lot of mental anguish. I don't have the money to live alone and we've been together 29 years. We were very young when we got together. Plus, why is it my fault that he hooked up with my ex best friend? That's on them, not me. Very hurtful.

[MikeTheBartender]

Strip club is my guess as well.