Is my husband cheating?

[Anonymous]

I keep finding text messages, emails and secret messaging apps on my husband's phone to other women about meeting up and having sex. Even to escorts to meet at motels. They're all made while I'm at work, he's at work or when I'm sleep next to him. He says he's just catfishing cause he thinks it's funny but he gives out his real phone number. email and sends nudes of himself. Since I only have the messages he says since I didn't actually see him having sex with another woman then he's not cheating. or that I'm making it up and copies of the messages aren't proof and I'm a liar. Since I did not catch him in the act then I have nothing. I know I sound stupid but any advice would help me out. We are still married and together but I have my doubts... should I stay or leave without seeing it for myself?

[MzAsh]

Here’s the thing, YOU get to decide what’s inappropriate for you in your relationship, NOT him. He doesn’t get to define cheating, you do. He’s a scum bag and you’re being a pushover. If you don’t like what he’s doing, then lay down the law. Tell him. Then when he doesn’t want to comply (he won’t, because if he’s doing this shit so unapologetically then he doesn’t give a f about you) you can tell him to kick rocks.

[IJhonnyI]

Yes I don't wanna disrespect you by calling you crazy but there must be something wrong up in your head that you are still with him I get it your married but sending nudes to them also there is no reason you should be with him still it amazed me to see this I can't believe how ignorant people can be that's insane for your mental health leave it as fast as possible I know you could be hurt but at this moment with all that's Been done to you think of yourself if this is all true u should've left a long time ago or whenever you figured this out

[RuthlessAggression]

So you're going through his phone without permission. Even if he is cheating, that is very wrong. And if I found out you were doing that behind MY back, it would be IMMEDIATE grounds for dismissal (you're fired).

But, how would I know if he's cheating. I'm not him. You can't just assume either. Since it makes an ass out of you and me

[billmunch]

My wife busted me for cheating over a year ago. She still keeps me locked up in the basement, handcuffed to the plumbing pipes whenever she has to leave the house.

[Anonymous]

I wish you had waited before you confronted him, but he is cheating and if he was just catfishing other women, than why not tell you what he is up too? Is he on ant dating sites? If he is, make a fake account and see if he falls for it.

[Mate100]

Well yeah he's cheating. Sorry you have to go through it 😕

[Iron_Man]

WOW where their is smoke there’s fire I’m sorry to hear that

[anton_dee]

Duhhh... I is or he intends...