What do you wish for your ex?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

In the first 6 months of break up, sometimes I felt really heartbroken and even bitter, I wished all the worst things in the world for him. I also was rude to him the last time we talked.

But now, it’s 7th month and today I caught myself thinking, I want him to feel happy. I would be hurt knowing he hurts or suffers.

I don’t believe in God and I never pray but today I prayed for him to be happy, he once made me the happiest person in the world, he taught me what love is and what is it like to be loved, he gave the most beautiful and sweet first love I could ever dream about. I just wish him to live a beautiful, peaceful life he always wanted and I feel guilty for feeling bitter and revengeful after he left.

[Guy13]

I wish her the best in all things as she is basically a good woman but it did not click. Our worldview was just a little too different to make it work but she is a great girl and easy to fall in love with. I would hope that she find a man deserving of her and that fits into her vision of how life should be lived.

[Wade12345]

Sounds like you just had an epiphany. You should go further, and ask God to reveal himself to you. Your ex must have been a really good guy. I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.

I've never had a real relationship, so I don't have an ex, however, I have some former friends that I had to get away with who became toxic, so I pray for them from time to time. I still pray for them even 18 years after the fact.

[TheSimFans]

They some of my ex boyfriend are cheaters and they should get karma back for cheating. Same with my last ex boyfriend that chang into a very toxic karma get him back.

[denisenic01e]

I wish they'd all f-off and never contact me again.

[dynamicyandere]

It depends on the ex. With most, I’m indifferent. With some, I hope that karma will teach them a thing or two. With one, I hope she is doing okay and I wish the best for her.

[mathew1543]

Not sure why your relationship ended but he loved you. I wished my ex the best for her life even when she ruined mine and tried to kill me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep, he did love me.

How can you tell though?

And I am sorry for your experience.

[mathew1543]

Your last paragraph says he loved you. And thanks! I'm out of it and moved on.

[Anonymous]

You should believe in God, God is love... what you just described. Trouble is we think we are separated, but can be resolved by belief.

I wish them well. I wish everyone well and into God's hands. We're only here for a short time... learning.

I guess in a sense, everyone we meet is a teacher that teaches us something, about ourselves.

[Bricealan]

She called me years after our divorce. I just wish her well. We could have had a GREAT life together had she stayed. She fucked it up, and wishes now that she hadn't.

I have no ax to grind for her.

[Dana223]

Honestly, good luck and that's all.

We didn't fit. She didn't hurt me or anything. We had good times, our roads diverged. I'm not angry of her.

[Redstang88]

I just hope she’s ok. She was really struggling when things ended and I haven’t had the slightest clue if she’s even still alive since. Would be nice to at least know but as long as she’s happy that’s what matters

[loveslongnails]

The same thing I wish for anyone I once cared about - love, peace and happiness, which is what I wish for most people -- not everyone ( and I struggle with that!, but most people!!

[nudetru]

jack squat... zero.. did u get a get well soon card or some thing.. is not resentful not to wish nor is it constructive... unless as a means of closure.

[virgincountryboy]

Show me how to have sex and help me learn everything about penis and condom and size and measure it

[msc545]

Effective psychotherapy, contrition, and enlightenment.

[SunnyRS]

That they stay happy Wherever they are.
As long as that wherever is not near me.

[Cheerfull009]

It is good, you recognize his sacrifice for you in love and have very positive views

[Anonymous]

may you be successful but never be as successful as me

[Zandoval]

Meh. They can live their lives. I'll live mine.

[Molly1997]

I wish he wasn’t dead

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You and I are in the same boat.
I'll take a break-up any day over this

[Zayed_]

I wish all the best.

[Agape93]

A slow death.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

When did you break up and what did he do?

I can see you’ve been hurt badly, I was - too.

[Agape93]

Back when i was 20.

Emotional abuse, psychological abuse, cheated, beatings, isolated me, rape, attempted murder and so on.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Omg… I am so sorry.

No, I wasn’t hurt that bad, my ex was an Angel literally, the only thing he did is he stopped loving me.

[Agape93]

No need to be, you're not culpable in any way. Only he is, and he deserves death for it.

Sorry to hear that. You doing better now?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am better. Much better. I thought I’d die of a heartbreak, but here I am alive and ready to fall in love again someday in future.

[Agape93]

You will :)

[lightbulb27]

that just doesn't sound like an X, it sounds like a "human trafficker"... a pleasant label for a psycho that should be terminated. There's no love in that.

[Charliefretz329]

Peace health and happiness for them all

[dinojames22]

Karma