Should you wish your ex a happy birthday?

[Anonymous]

Haven’t talked in a while (months) but we ended on a somewhat good note

Yes

No

[Maxiebleu]

Recent break up in July 2024, weeks later I discovered he unfriended me and removed me as his follower, and blocked my number. His bday was August 22nd and I really wanted to wish him a happy bday so I messaged him but it never went through. Ngl I was upset about it.

[paledreams]

LOL - if I had an ex and that's what you're asking, I can only guess they might be like what the calling for expletives expletives - or she may call the cops on me - again this an imaginary situation so I always steer clear of my ex's as a paranoid cautious guy. Not wanting to step on toes or even like, why contact them, exactly uh uh uh - no way

[paledreams]

😅😅😅😊🙃👀

[paledreams]

Not that I have any ex's

[melnc]

Why bother? It’s not like they’ll appreciate it or it’ll change anything. Just move on and focus on yourself.

[jennifer_bloom]

I want him to be happy but I know acts of kindness could be interpreted as romantic signals so I won't initiate contact with him.

[AviatorTom]

If the relationship ended amicably, sure. My wife of 20 years and I were amicably divorced. Each of us sends a text or email to the other on our birthdays.

[paledreams]

Some may say that's a different category aka - it's like politeness for visitation rights / court ordered allowance of visitation comms lol

[petitedollbabee]

Only one ex that I stayed friends with. I send him a care package on his birthday too, full of snacks and random bits.

[ProbablyClueless]

If you ended on a decent note, it might be received well enough. That said, if my ex reached out to me to wish me a happy birthday, I'd wonder what her motivation for doing that is.

[Fireguy17]

most of them that I stayed friends with yes, others it was thank you and good night as I let the door close behind me.

[Nikki1989]

Sure, if I can remember his birthday. I am not good with dates.

[LiamJHayden]

I'm on as least cordial terms with my exes who still live nearby, so I would.

[RebeccaSJ]

I see no reason not to if you want to and are still on good terms.

[Puppystarfish23]

Eww no that just looks desperate

[strateguy632]

No way! That would be awkward

[elizamichale1]

No i dont think so

[FunkyMonkee]

I never do! Fuck her!!

[jojouzumaki]

Yes, it is his birthday.

[exitseven]

I leave the past in the past.

[DrPepper12]

If you're on even mediocre terms yes!

[Anonymous]

I block ex's. It never ends well 😂

[elaphe]

I think that sounds nice.

[RealLifeHarleyQuinn]

I don't have an ex so I don't know.

[Anonymous]

Yes you should, out of decency.

[Danny_dan92]

No, move on

[EnjoytheDay777]

Yes.