Do you have an EX you wish would reach out to you?

[coachTanthony]

Yes still waiting

No they are exes for a reason bro

see poll ( Coach I miss you call me )

[LovingJo]

Yes, but not for the reasons you'd think. Not because of wanting them back. But to rub their nose in what they missed out on!!

[Still-alive]

Nose rubbing can be a satisfying activity i agree lol

[LovingJo]

💯😂❤️

[Jennz6]

@LovingJo good answer Jo ❤️💛💜

[LovingJo]

@jennz6 thanks babe 😘

[Jennz6]

@LovingJo 💯❤️

[LovingJo]

@coachTanthony thanks for the MHO 😘

[LovingJo]

Why do tags not work for you @jennz6?

[Still-alive]

She may have disabled it in settings

[Jennz6]

@LovingJo I don’t know, what is a “Tag”?

[LovingJo]

@Still-alive as gonna say... It's when you use the @ sign and then type someone's name to tag them in the comment.

[Jennz6]

I was making changes to my settings

[Jennz6]

@Still-alive thanks, I only made changes to unlock my profile summary

[LovingJo]

@jennz6 it's been like this for months

[Still-alive]

Oh could just be a bug. I know another user experienced this too

[Jennz6]

@Still-alive it happened to me, but if the tag doesn’t show up, I put in the @ and type it in

[LovingJo]

I have to type it in anyway.. I wasn't aware that they did come up.

[Jennz6]

@LovingJo yes, sometimes they just come up

[Still-alive]

@Jennz6 does it work when i try it?

[Still-alive]

Nope lol

[Still-alive]

@Jennz6 https://ibb.co/qj94VBK

Here go into your settings and look for this option here. Is there a check mark there? If so that would explain it

[Jennz6]

@Still-alive okay I unchecked it so try again

[Still-alive]

@Jennz6 tagging

[Still-alive]

Voila! Lol

[Jennz6]

@Still-alive thank you sweetie

[LovingJo]

Awesome @Jennz6!! 💯 ❤️

[Still-alive]

Yippee!

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, bro, exes for a reason bro indeed!

[jennifer_bloom]

I have to let him be happy with other people because I have no serious interest in taking him back. I want to help him but I won’t cause he will question my motives if I do.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Nope… have an ex husband and a deceased spouse… the one that could reach out, that’d be a hell no…! The one that can’t, wish he could but then he’s not really an ex is he 🤷‍♀️

[ManOnFire]

Nah. Not anymore. I used to wish for that so bad but enough time passed to let me realize she's not someone I would or even should want back into my life. When you go through a breakup you're wanting the person back so much, not realizing that they walked away cuz they wanted to go. I did all the things most people do: calling and getting no answer, sending long texts asking why, even trying to catch her face to face in places I knew she would be at to talk, and getting nowhere with any of it.

It took me a long time to learn that you need to stop trying to hold on to somebody who doesn't want to hold on to you. There's no beauty in it, and I don't want to spend my days or months hoping that someone who let me go will reach out again.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not at all. It wasn't like any of the relationships ended horribly, it's just the simple fact that I like to stay true to the one I am with, and talking to an ex could be construed as cheating. Other than if you happen to run into them and just say hi and ask how they are doing.

[Moose304]

I posted this song a while back in answer to another question. It kind of fits this one. I don't mean this to be flip, I just no longer care what these ladies are doing these days.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/51tvZnkn5V8

[SaoirseS]

Yes, one. Because he owes me $85. I just want to see him long enough to collect my money. Or break his knee caps if he doesn’t pay up. Either way is fine by me.

[ManOnFire]

He owes you $85? And how long ago was this?

[SaoirseS]

Three years ago. A short-lived dating relationship destined from the beginning to go nowhere.

[humanearth]

Yeah, kinda

I kinda want to know what my very 1st girlfriend is up to these days

Last time I saw her was in 1986

[awkwardddgirl]

so it's true ig guys never love anyone as much as their first girlfriend that's what my boyfriend told me

[humanearth]

@awkwardddgirl yes and she broke my heart. She was my first romanic love

[awkwardddgirl]

i feel sad sometimes knowing my boyfriend will never love me as much as his ex. Please love your current girl not that i'm saying you don't i'm sorry for saying this

[humanearth]

@awkwardddgirl well first girlfriend was in the 1980s and its 2023 now.

I dont think my wife has to worry. My first girlfriend might be even dead for all I know.

Besides my 1980s self is a lot different then todays self

[Quackthulu2]

I have a stalker if that’s what you are asking. Haven’t heard from him in a while, so that’s nice.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I used to wish my ex would get in touch with me. But it is for the better that we remain out of touch. It wasn’t a healthy relationship and we hurt each other in a LOT of bad ways.

[Redstang88]

Yeah. Long past wanting her back, but she was pretty special and still care. She was a in a pretty bad place when things ended and I just wish I knew how she’s doing, how things worked out

[melanieeeB]

Nope but like with one I'm still sad it didn't worked out but there is no future and no chance of me ever wanting to change the separation. It is what it is and better things are to come

[blissinanarchy1]

There’s an ex that abandoned me in my darkest time. I fell in love, she said she did.

I kinda want closure, ask her why she did what she did, tell her the impact she had on me.

I kinda want her to come crawling back then slam the door in her face

[legalboxers]

sad to say yeah.. 20 years ago I got engaged to her. Granted she was a pathological liar, was around when my father died, when I was struggling in college, her presence just was at most calming. Maybe Im stupid I dont know

[worldscolide]

No, there is just one ex I still talk with occasionally, and that is because we were friends since kindergarten, and dated for literally a week. Beyond that, an ex is an ex for a reason.

[Unit1]

... No...

[nitsuj86]

Eh, not really. Maybe just so I can tell her how much of a cunt she was while we were dating. I think she knows that, would just be nice to hear it get acknowledged rather than just get turned around on me.

[Still-alive]

I would like to just get her official word on why she left is all. I didn’t get anything from her

[On_cloud_wine]

Ghosted?

[Still-alive]

@On_cloud_wine mmhmmm its become a big problem in dating now. 'why face the difficult thing of letting the other person down when i can just cut them off completely for my own convenience/comfort?' /sarcasm

[On_cloud_wine]

This one girl though, must have really meant something to you.. why?

[Still-alive]

@On_cloud_wine well i connected pretty well with her or at least i felt like i did.

and im very sensitive to ghosting. i advise people to never do it unless you think the other person is an abuser or something

[On_cloud_wine]

Why do you think she did it?

[Still-alive]

@On_cloud_wine cause she was scared of commitment is my best guess

[On_cloud_wine]

Did you mention you wanted to be in a relationship with her?

[Still-alive]

@On_cloud_wine yup i was pretty clear, and she also said things were going there too. i always made sure we were on the same page

[On_cloud_wine]

How would you describe her?

[Still-alive]

@On_cloud_wine can i dm you instead?

[On_cloud_wine]

Mhmm

[crossdressingrihno]

I might be an egotistical monster but im not just an egotistical monster.
Im a monster who loves.

Yeah theirs 2 people who would probably go out with again but I would love to apologize to the rest for being the horrible person I am.

[Nikki1989]

I have one that is still a close fiend, but the rest are dead to me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not anymore, wouldn’t change anything if he reached out. He’d broke something that can’t be glued together anymore.