Do you have an EX you wish would reach out to you?

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LovingJo · Accepted Answer

Yes, but not for the reasons you'd think. Not because of wanting them back. But to rub their nose in what they missed out on!!

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

No, bro, exes for a reason bro indeed!

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I have to let him be happy with other people because I have no serious interest in taking him back. I want to help him but I won’t cause he will question my motives if I do.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

Nope… have an ex husband and a deceased spouse… the one that could reach out, that’d be a hell no…! The one that can’t, wish he could but then he’s not really an ex is he 🤷‍♀️

ManOnFire · Answer

Nah. Not anymore. I used to wish for that so bad but enough time passed to let me realize she's not someone I would or even should want back into my life. When you go through a breakup you're wanting the person back so much, not realizing that they walked away cuz they wanted to go. I did all the things most people do: calling and getting no answer, sending long texts asking why, even trying to catch her face to face in places I knew she would be at to talk, and getting nowhere with any of it.

It took me a long time to learn that you need to stop trying to hold on to somebody who doesn't want to hold on to you. There's no beauty in it, and I don't want to spend my days or months hoping that someone who let me go will reach out again.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Not at all. It wasn't like any of the relationships ended horribly, it's just the simple fact that I like to stay true to the one I am with, and talking to an ex could be construed as cheating. Other than if you happen to run into them and just say hi and ask how they are doing.

Moose304 · Answer

I posted this song a while back in answer to another question. It kind of fits this one. I don't mean this to be flip, I just no longer care what these ladies are doing these days.

SaoirseS · Answer

Yes, one. Because he owes me $85. I just want to see him long enough to collect my money. Or break his knee caps if he doesn’t pay up. Either way is fine by me.

humanearth · Answer

Yeah, kinda I kinda want to know what my very 1st girlfriend is up to these days Last time I saw her was in 1986

Quackthulu2 · Answer

I have a stalker if that’s what you are asking. Haven’t heard from him in a while, so that’s nice.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I used to wish my ex would get in touch with me. But it is for the better that we remain out of touch. It wasn’t a healthy relationship and we hurt each other in a LOT of bad ways.

Redstang88 · Answer

Yeah. Long past wanting her back, but she was pretty special and still care. She was a in a pretty bad place when things ended and I just wish I knew how she’s doing, how things worked out

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope but like with one I'm still sad it didn't worked out but there is no future and no chance of me ever wanting to change the separation. It is what it is and better things are to come

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

There’s an ex that abandoned me in my darkest time. I fell in love, she said she did.

I kinda want closure, ask her why she did what she did, tell her the impact she had on me.

I kinda want her to come crawling back then slam the door in her face

legalboxers · Answer

sad to say yeah.. 20 years ago I got engaged to her. Granted she was a pathological liar, was around when my father died, when I was struggling in college, her presence just was at most calming. Maybe Im stupid I dont know

worldscolide · Answer

No, there is just one ex I still talk with occasionally, and that is because we were friends since kindergarten, and dated for literally a week. Beyond that, an ex is an ex for a reason.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have one that is still a close fiend, but the rest are dead to me.

Unit1 · Answer

... No...

nitsuj86 · Answer

Eh, not really. Maybe just so I can tell her how much of a cunt she was while we were dating. I think she knows that, would just be nice to hear it get acknowledged rather than just get turned around on me.

Still-alive · Answer

I would like to just get her official word on why she left is all. I didn’t get anything from her

crossdressingrihno · Answer

I might be an egotistical monster but im not just an egotistical monster.
Im a monster who loves.

Yeah theirs 2 people who would probably go out with again but I would love to apologize to the rest for being the horrible person I am.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Not anymore, wouldn’t change anything if he reached out. He’d broke something that can’t be glued together anymore.

bolverk · Answer

No, all of my Exes are in the past, each for a different reason.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Nope, I don't even have a former friend that I'd want to do that.

RobT312 · Answer

Not anymore, but after a few breakups, I thought about reconnecting and sometimes wished she did too

Anonymous · Answer

Mainly when there is a special something where I used to give gifts to him. He says he still loves me. I did the breaking up so maybe on those occasions, He wants to reunite. hahaha

DizzyDesii · Answer

No that would only be like an ego boost, not anything beneficial

Shamalien · Answer

Yeah I do. The breakup was really confusing and had a lot more to do with her being in a bad place than it did us not being compatible in terms of what we want out of our future

exitseven · Answer

no but I has a female friend that I wish would find me.

genericname85 · Answer

nope. i kind of wish some of these who rejected me would make up their minds tho xD

Ehjoh1 · Answer

People who are exes should be let go, that's why they're your ex

CheeseMonster · Answer

I don't even have an ex lol

strlb · Answer

No, I'm good lol. I can converse with her anytime but there is simply no desire

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

One I’d like to apologize to

msc545 · Answer

I certainly hope she doesn't reach out.

strateguy632 · Answer

1st if she dumped me

AFretiredTXn · Answer

Ex crush, Yes

katiesmuff · Answer

No I don't

Ninania · Answer

That's a hard nope.

Jennz6 · Answer

No ex for me

PointTaken · Answer

No way

Fuentes · Answer

Lol he'll naah

htmndg183 · Answer

Yes :(

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