Was he only pretending to love me?

[Anonymous]

I asked him to just be friends and all of a sudden he changed his attitude and became cold and cutting the frequent communication.

After 3 months he was treating me like a girlfriend but then I stopped him because it was too soon. My ex respected my decision and we lasted for 8 years.

Updates

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It’s a new guy my ex is different

[Guy13]

He is following your direction and he wants a different course of action. It is on you.

[Asker]

I blocked him because I got tired of his coldness. Maybe he has someone else

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain what your ex's intentions or feelings may have been, but it's important to trust your own instincts and to prioritize your own well-being in any relationship or interaction.

If you feel that your ex was only pretending to love you, it may be helpful to reflect on your own feelings and experiences in the relationship and to communicate your thoughts and feelings clearly and respectfully. Remember to prioritize your own boundaries and expectations, and to make choices that align with your values and priorities.

If you continue to feel uncertain or have questions or concerns, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or therapist about your feelings and experiences. Remember that you deserve to be treated with love, respect, and kindness, and that you have the power to make choices that align with your own well-being and happiness.