Did he not have feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone. I'm 24. I wanted to ask - I have been talking with one guy for two and a half years. I can’t say that there was a serious relationship between us. At his request, I sent him nudes many time. Of course, we talked about other topics on a video call, and over time, I began to develop feelings for him.

A month ago, he stopped replying to my messages, although he used to reply quickly. I began to worry - I texted him and even called. He said that the internet was not working well. From his Instagram, I found out that he has female model friend, and somehow I saw that they were spending time together in Greece. I started to get even more jealous and continued to text him. He was offended at me because I was watching his friend's story and blocked me, explaining that he was uncomfortable. (She had a birthday)

I still feel bad about being attached to him. Lost the meaning of life. Come to think of it, it's not such a big mistake that it couldn't be forgiven. After that, I apologized several times from another account. Before, we never had misunderstandings, we supported and understood each other. He used to say that he wanted to come to my country, but for these two years there was no action on his part. I even sent him gifts.

Did he not have feelings for me? Do you think they actually dated?

Thanks

[DaveJord]

I would say he used you, and no he is not serious about you, do not send nudes to people you have never met in person. You sound to desperate for this situation, and you even contacted him after being blocked from another account. I would move one with my life and forget this guy.

[BradleyinOK]

How old are you? From my I can tell in your question you seem to. E between 18-24. You are still to young to worry about all this. Nothing you can do about the nudes since he's in a different country if he were to post them online I don't believe (it's been a minute since I had to look up that legal documentation for digital harrassment media used outside of another country.

Stop with the nudes. I'm gonna send you something better I sent as recommendations to send instead. Its what wen I dated used to send and it's way more sexy and then you can get that "D" in that "P" a few times before doing sex video chat. You gotta get reative and make these men want you.

[BradleyinOK]

I will tell you what I think is hotter than full nudes. You need some really sexy/lacy black or red lingerie. Something you can kinda see your nips just barely showing. and then if you have a dildo or vibrator you lay against your bed post or in a chair, take a photo with licking the tip or suck the toy. Another pose with that is to bend over chair or bed, looking back, and place to cover your Crack. Last pose in red is sit in the shair, lean toward the camera, looking right into it, again lock or suck the toy. Second option there with red is to lean back in chair, feet pulled up to the edge of the seat, legs spread, and place the toy to cover you pussy.

Black lingerie there's several things you could do. Everything I said above. Plus if you have or can get somebondage stuff you could make some poses where you stage yourself bound up. It could be simple like tying rope around your ankles and chair and just kind laying some rope over your wrists. Or just put on a blindfold, get on your knees and open your as another pise.

I don't know what type of girl you are ie: girly/girl, sporty, hipster, etc you could even do like a light pink colored lingerie, lay back against the back of your headboard, and place a really big stuffed bear face right between your legs and then another one sitting on the bears face.

[Asker]

Thank you so much🙏🏻
Yes I’m 24. But I can't do that. I'm shy for this and I'm afraid that he will show this video to everyone)))

[BradleyinOK]

Maybe you can help me. I'm new. How long
Does it take before you can send someone a direct message?

[JasminTheRose]

He has ZERO feelings for you especially because your following and pursuing him.
Cut it out!!
He is not interested
your obsessing over him!
Block him!!
Do not ever again in your life contact him!
Move along!
Get yourself a new boyfriend!
Forget he even exists!

[Asker]

🙌🏻🥺🙏🏻

[Guy13]

He lost interest and lots of guys do when they get sex or the nudes….

[Asker]

🥺🥺🥺

[Guy13]

This is true about people and it is what makes games come into relationship. Both men and women under appreciate what they feel they have captured. Men have a hard time resisting a woman who is challenging. This woman gives off the "High Value" vibe thereby assuming the Prize position. A man chases that especially if there is some perceived competition.

The key is to keep the Love/Lust chemical dopamine release in check. Keeping priorities and standards rather than making this guy's wants and desires the highest priority. You move him along slowly but allow him to capture little parts of you overtime. You validate his worth and validates your worth.

Withholding sex ever comes up during this process then you need to check his intentions.

[Asker]

Yes🙌🏻😔

I found that woman is not his girlfriend. Why do you think they met?
He flew away for her birthday to another country.
And I've been sending him nudes for 3 years!
(covid lockdown)
Before sending nudes, he always said that he wanted to come to me🤷🏻‍♀️
Or he doesn’t perceive me as a date girl:(

[Guy13]

It sounds like the relationship may have expired with the distance. Sorry.

[Summeroflove]

You shouldn’t send nudes. Seems he could be using you and you definitely don’t know what he’s done with the nudes you sent.

[Vikkrram]

He has now loosen intrest in you coz there was never any intrest for you. He asked nude you gave him, you pursued him, you mesaaged him. Wherever he was just replying your messages not trying to initiate anything.

[Asker]

yes:(🥺

[Loser94]

Just be happy you even have anyone in your life to even have moments like that with. You could be like me alone. Virgin. No experience. No money. No good well paying job. No travel experience at all. Just be happy with what you got

[Asker]

🙌🏻Or is it better to be alone to be happy than to be unhappy with someone🥺

[Loser94]

Believe me it is not ok to be alone at all

[LiamJHayden]

He might have had feelings at some point, but ultimately it was not enough to keep him from using you and then discarding you.

[Asker]

Yes🥺