Thinking it’s bigger reason than that
Why did make so much effort to talk to then tell me she had feelings for another guy?
Thinking it’s bigger reason than that
This girl is trying to have her cake and eat it too. That's all this is. She said it herself in a text message- she's still not over someone else. Which means there is no way you can trust her feelings for you. If there's some residual emotion that she's holding for another person, then chances are, her attraction to you is simply her protecting unresolved feelings onto you as a surrogate. Essentially, she's trying to make you the rebound guy. Which never works because the attraction isn't genuine. It's simply something to fill the void. But she doesn't want to give you up completely, so she's trying to keep you in the glass box. You ever seen those fire extinguishers in a glass box? They have the little sign that says in cases of emergency, break glass. By keeping you around as a "friend", she keeping you around for those emergencies. That way still talk to the other guy, and if things work out she's in the clear and you're still a friend. If they don't work out, then she's always got you to fall back on. It's a win-win for her, a lose-lose for you. Don't get fooled into being a safety net for her. If you're going to be with a woman, make damn sure you're her top priority, not just some runner-up.
TL;DRShe is setting you up to be her emotional tampon. She really wants Chad Thundercock, but she also needs a Simp to do all of the "sweet" things she know Chad won't do. So she will fuck Chad Thundercock until her cootchie is sore but call you to take her to lunch. Don't fall for this shit.
Sometimes things like that happen. You've only known her for a few days, right? So even though this sucks I would just let it go.
I’ve known her for. Couple weeks at club they mural friends but this was the first time she messaged me, and she was on me hard the whole time It was just weird cuz she made a move on me first and approached me and was talking to non stop everyday for. Weeek till the weekend the party at her friends she invited me too and she was all over me and then next morning just nothing all day and same day at night at club she approached me with
Her friend but she was off and was still looking at me.
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If girls are talking to you that much over text they see you as a friend not as a potential mate. she's using you as an emotional tampon, you are the shoulder for her to cry on.
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