I felt like he didn’t take my feelings into consideration, am I wrong?

[chickkkienugggies]

I understand it’s not right to post private conversations between people but I really need help and I need to rant to somebody who is willing to listen.

I found this on my bf’s phone with his friend. This was the same day I was out of town.

i confronted him about this and I don't know ig i was expecting more than just an “okay”. it just felt like a whatever to me

throughout the conversation, he never apologized for checking the girl out. he mad it seem like it was all her. he never apologized for wanting to get the girls number. he claims it’s what i get but i never flirted with another guy. he told me the things i don’t see going on would hurt my feelings. it just felt like my feelings were completely pointless to him. I don't know if i should just leave it alone because every time i express how i feel, the conversations end up like this or if i stand my ground, be face to face and tell him how i felt he completely disregarded my feelings and never apologized. to me it feels like he snapped at me because he got caught.

[ohsheeT]

Okay I hear what you're saying it's just who You are in this world and that's a beautiful thing really

But this is a learning moment for you to understand just because you feel something for somebody they don't always feel the same way back towards you..

Especially of the opposite sex it's cool to be friendly with people that you have to know who you're becoming friends with because if they are not caring if they're selfish if they're judgmental in their eyes anything goes

And then when that happens you're saying well wait a minute what about me what about the way I feel where's the respect that I give you where's that Bond I thought we had that I've giving you

I believe that's the type of person you are I would think you have a very beautiful heart you're very caring you feel things deeper you see things deeper than most people that's who you are

And it's going to be hard to find that match for you it's going to treat you the same way but that's okay though because the wait is well worth it..

Well you can DM me if you want and you can vent and maybe I can say something to you haven't said to yourself that might help you

[chickkkienugggies]

Heyy, I was just scrolling through my old questions lol. I broke up with the guy last year and I’m currently with someone new, he’s very patient and kind. He has a sweet heart and very understanding. I definitely wanted to take a break from relationships. When I met my current boyfriend, I didn’t want to move to fast, but the only phrase I kept hearing from other people is “if you found a good man, keep him because they’re hard to find” so I’m keeping him lol

[ohsheeT]

Well I mean if you're happy that's. And thank you for sending me this message I don't know how long ago this was but I think that's kind of cool what it's all about

[ProbablyClueless]

What he did was tasteless, but you also didn't spell out exactly what the problem is. Neither of you communicated your points clearly enough.

Your problem with what he did (it sounds like) is that he was paying attention to other women while you were around. You don't like it in general, but especially not when you're planning on sleeping with him that night because you want to feel like he's all about you. THAT is the problem. He's not prioritizing you.

The instagram and twitter girls showing up on his feed is annoying and it's a reminder that he finds other women attractive, but the actual problem is that he doesn't make you feel like you are his priority.

[chickkkienugggies]

very true, the thing that happened in chili’s, i wasn’t around for at all. he normally tells me when a girl talks to him but not this time. probably because he was checking her out too and wanted her number. now it just makes me feel like what other girls you’ve come across and wanted their number. i never checked a guy out or been like damn i want his number

[ProbablyClueless]

The more I date, the more I realize how important it is to be able to identify and communicate why I feel different ways about things.

[Anonymous]

You leave it alone and break up! He is only sorry you found out not for checking her out!

He won't ever be sorry and will check 9ut many other women and just for them not you!

Find a man like my hubby who covered his eyes when we saw the hula dancers on vacation! He just wants so see my chest and shows he just wants to adore me and know that he does! He works on not listing for other women!

Dump that guy you know would go bang someone else! Given the chance!

[chickkkienugggies]

okayy 😂😂

[SnowedIn]

There are novels shorter than your text exchange with him. Wow.

I have no clue.

@_Maya_

[_Maya_]

The abbreviations hurt my head.