My boyfriend and I had to break up because of his parents. What do I do?

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My boyfriend and I had to break up because his parents found out we slept together. I still want to be with him and love him very much, but he doesn't want to go behind his parents back again (we've done this before and kept our relationship a secret for the first 2 months). We are not allowed to see each other at all/make eye contact, so he ignores me even at school. We had the same friend group, a rock band together (which I had to quit from the breakup), and fell in love from being each others best friend.

I have given him letters and tried to talk to him, but it doesn't seem to work. On the last letter I gave him, I said that I was willing to wait until we were adults and see if we could get back together romantically (we are teenagers now). he answered through one of our mutual friends that he would love to be 'friends' in the future, but he doesn't want to think about the future and wouldn't want to date me again. I'm thinking his answer is because of his parents, and he might resent me for it (they punished him a lot for what we did).

Its been a little over a month since we broke up, we dated for six, and have been friends for many years. Again, I want to always be with him because I know what good we were to each other. Any and all advice welcome, thank you!

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Just thought I'd add, we were each others first love. Don't know if it'll help at ll
My boyfriend and I had to break up because of his parents. What do I do?
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