How can girls dump guys so easily?

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Like you can just be friends with them or you get to know them for some time and then they dump u in general like if it's nothing. Even in relationships they are cruel. Is it cuz they have so many options or they just dont have the emotions biologically to feel it. How are they so black hearted?

Unit1 · Accepted Answer

Why should they not?

Remember Briffaults law:

"The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place." — Robert Briffault

Girls get swarmed with "simps" and are contacted with "hey"s by GAG blues and GAG blues registered as pinks and we get crickets. The supply of them is immense. Immense enough so that OnlyFans and Fansly are fairly profitable businesses. Find a tiny little thing that girl doesn't like about him? Dump him and yell "NEXT".

OnlyFans revenue in 2021 was $900 million - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/OnlyFans

Tommy Hilfiger revenue is around $3600 million - https://fashionista.com/2015/07/most-valuable-american-brands

Tommy Hilfiger's Yacht financed by selling plain blue jeans with a tiny TH Logotype for $100:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/q7QqfQwyvMg

OnlyFans CEO may soon build a Yacht soon enough too. Financed by "simps" throwing themselves at young girls selling their feet pictures after a pedicure.

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on the girl. You were apparently involved with some real bruisers.

Getting dumped sucks, but, don't let it carry over to other relationships. Getting dumped can be a good thing:

Pros -

1) You are a free man,

2) You can see other people, maybe the girl at the coffee shop you always wanted to talk to,

3) You're not stuck to anyone else's schedule or having to show up to things you didn't like doing that you did bc you were in a relationship,

4) You get to spend time with your guy and girl-friends - again,

5) You can head to the pub, enjoy a cold one and meet some new people,

6) You can sit down and take a break without anyone asking, where are you on the list of to do's?

7) You are a free man (hmmm funny how that one got in twice!)

DermalPunch · Accepted Answer

❌️❌️❌️❌️ Why don't guys take her pleas months and months (years) before the breakup for you to compromise or stop dismissing and treating her concerns or needs as excessive and emotional outbursts or PMS. Then you want to come and whine about I never saw it coming.

tesniolite · Accepted Answer

its not that its easy i just dont show how hard it is

Pegases · Answer

Both men and women can do this, and how really just depends on so different many factors. Such as, they may not have been all that interested in you, or they may not be capable of forming deep bonds with other people, or you may have an anxious attachment style while they have an avoidant style, etc.. Something that may help you view the world in a different light is this quote;

"In life, nothing happens to you, everything happens for you. The universe in on your side." ~ Yours Truly

Meaning, nothing in life is personal. Every obstacle you face is meant to teach you something, so that you can grow into a better version of yourself. So don't dwell on the event, instead focus on what the event is trying to teach you. Good Luck.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I've never been dumped, but one of these days I'd like to be. I know it's weird, but I want my heart broken. It's a part of life that everyone's gotten to experience but me.

My current girlfriend is the perfect girl to do it too, because I like her a lot.
I hope she fucking cheats and dumps me hard. I want the full experience

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Men too can be easy dumpers. My father was like that, and to be honest I envy this quality of his - he cut the nip in the bud and managed to save time for more meaningful relationships.

Meanwhile I gave too many second, third and fourth chances to women who didn't even deserve the first.

It's not being blackhearted, it's being smart and weeding out the trash - more people should be like that. Easy dumping is not necessarily a bad thing, sometimes it's a rare quality.

ManOnFire · Answer

If a woman is dumping a guy very easily, it's usually because she's already moving towards someone else. Many women let go of a guy when she becomes bored or feels like she can "do better" than the current guy.

Anonymous · Answer

It is selfish, they only really care for their own feelings. It is the same with everything, shallowness, relationships quality interests, cheating.

They will slate men on these things but they do it more and think it is ok for them to do it

Anonymous · Answer

Im not like that, not every girl same. You guys chase girls that are mostly out of your league or extremely pretty thats why they are arrogant and treats you guys like an option.

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Gals can dump a Guy at seeming "ease", and b so Heart broken. They've shown it on TV, even..
One Girl, did that to Me, and the Next xs She'd see me, would look @ Me, w/a lot uh retina. Like She thinks a lot about Me. ("Her loss", I guess..)

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Girls emotions are flighty. That's just what it is.

Agape93 · Answer

So, we are black hearted for dumping a guy? Do you expect us to drag it out and make everyone unhappy?

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Men do the same thing. Big whoop. Most people are not going to be in your life for long.

Anonymous · Answer

Because men are disposable

serious_miss419 · Answer

Most women check out before they dump ya.

Jltakk · Answer

Men are disposable, simple.

Anonymous · Answer

Life is not fair sometimes. Get over it.

In_Trance · Answer

Because the guy fucked things up so bad

Ashley_white · Answer

He have options.

gag37627 · Answer

Because of simp guys

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