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When it is only easy for the top 10% of all girls? The ones that are slim , pretty instagram models who get on everywhere they go. Meanwhile the rest of the other women need to go out, work very hard to get a guy?
Because, civilization. When it comes to sex and relationships, there’s an imbalance. If a girl is willing to spread her legs, there’s a line up of guys willing to fill the gap. Not necessarily desirable guys, but… Girls are picky, and often have a misguided sense of expectation when it comes to ‘high value’. We’ve all seen those TickTocks were a group of girls describe their desirable guy and it turns out statistically to not be top 20, but more like 2%. But a tight ass and nice rack aren’t enough to get you girls to 98th percentile…
100% yea thats why people don't understand. men just want sex with any woman regardless if she is fat, ugly, overweight. it does not mean he wants to date her.
So what should a girl expect from a guy, and vice versa?
Uhm, no, I don't want sex with fat, ugly, or overweight women. That's a gross mischaracterization of men.
@BoopBoopBeep not you in particular, but if we’re just considering sex, it’s easier for girls to give than guys to get. My point was more about the imbalance in expectations. While a top guy may play with a hot girl, he can and will be choosier about relationships than girls will be with guys.
This is not true.
It must be sometimes, or I wouldn’t have said it. 🤔
@redinnocent68
girls have more options but not necessarily better options. Truth is... guys will accept any girl who is young, slim and pretty. They won't give any time of day to any girl who isn't any of these three things. The young slim pretty girls are the ones that are picky since she has so many options.
this is why guys claim women are "picky". they are only referring to the girls that they want to date.
older women, overweight women are way less picky. but men don't consider them to be options
It is easy for a girl to find sex and since that is what most men desire, they project that desire onto women instead of being more specific.
yea thats why people don't understand. men just want sex with any woman regardless if she is fat, ugly, overweight. it does not mean he wants to date her.
You are wrong about this.
@Radiate143
do you realize there are many men out there who would have sex with anything and anyone? it doesn't mean he wants her, it just means he wants to take advantage of her
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Growing up, I noticed that the girls were able to get boyfriends very quickly. They could be single one day, and the next, boom!
Sure, it was usually a very shallow romance, and he was likely just using her for sex, but the worst ones would flaunt him as an excuse to be rude. That rudeness wouldn't even have to involve me showing interest in her. I could be asking if she'd heard about the latest crazy thing to happen in the news, and I'd get shot down with the "I have a boyfriend" line. Made worse when that didn't stop her from randomly hugging other dudes that walked up to her. And getting told to leave when I point out her hypocrisy.
In the past, I'd demand an apology over such horsecrap. Today, I leave immediately before asked, and make a point to avoid her in the future. If I don't ensure consequences for her being a rude and dishonest sack, there won't be any. The simps will see to it that if she skinned a small child right in front of them, she'd still be rewarded rather than punished!
Yet, those types always think I'm gonna be another simp. And when I instead start avoiding her like she's a scourge on humanity, and the shunning process continues months later, they act like I robbed them somehow! Robbed her, by refusing to take further disrespect?
It's nuts. But even the decent gals never showed any trouble snatching up arm candy. And I'm not even talking premium. They so little understood my creative ambitions, they would turn me down for some bearded flake that reeked of weed and could barely form a coherent sentence! Who spoke disgustingly toward her, but at least he wasn't me, so she'd never have to hear a meticulous breakdown of what's right or wrong with some bandwagon she jumped on, all written out on some whiteboard as if fit for a college lecture. Who's got time for that, when you could be busy banging drug addicts and supporting the current thing?
When I did find a gem of a woman, she was either in another country, or was terminally ill. She would be humble, and respectful. I'd return the favor, and try to work something out for as long as this cruel world would allow.
But these girls were battered, broken birds that others had trashed and abused. They were slow to trust, and I couldn't fault them for it. They had met dirtbag men, as I had met dirtbag women. My wounds were mostly emotional, hers physical. But while it lasted, her and I found comfort in each other. The current thing virtue-signaling whores could all go to Hell, as long as I had one girl who wasn't that way.
Two of three are dead now. I long to visit their graves some day, and pay respects.
of course you would be wounded by these hot girls rejecting you... you wouldn't be as broken if it were some chubby older girl.
dating is only easy if you're single, pretty, thin, under 30
I was 20 at the time. It wasn't the rejection, but the threats, lies, and shameless hypocrisy that left me irritated.
@ObscuredBeyond
of course pretty girls use and abuse you... they have plenty of options. if they fuck over one guy , its not hard for them to get the next guy.
@RavVid : Working on it. She's a bit of a mess, but is trying to turn herself around. I'm trying to whip up the courage to call her and ask her someplace.
I know she likes me. It's her cousins I don't trust. She's sweet, but very disorganized. Her one cousin is loud, crazy, and unpredictable. The gal herself is pretty normal for Florida. Her cousin is like Oprah on cocaine. She's got three kids, but is currently single. Works at Wendy's. Subway didn't work out for her. She has terrible luck with phones, so communication between us has been very on and off. I'm a bit too hung up to simply walk away, but I realize I have to be patient with her. Her greatest obstacle in life is herself.
My backup option is a single mom who usually shops at the station early in the morning, usually wearing a black hoodie. She's a single mom with only one kid, I think. Her daughter just gave birth recently though, so getting with her would make me a grandpa instantly. To go from nothing to having grandchildren that fast would be weird, but I guess I'm technically old enough now that it's possible.
It may not sound like much, but it's better than betting on the gal from China and losing everything. Already played that game once. And I don't have much luck with the Philippines either. Not for a lack of trying.
It's way more about personality with women the ones that will put their partner first will find someone and the others won't. You still need to be able to set boundaries and know your own needs and communicate them. But it's about the attitude you go into a relationship with. Also don't overvalue yourself based on attention from a guy who will never commit to you that's also something many women do. A woman's looks will increase the options she has to chose from but it will not help her in having a long term partner. That's all down to self awareness, willingness to work on yourself and how much you're willing to do to have that relationship not just expect it to happen.
Everybody needs to work to have a relationship. But this idea that women have it easier comes from the fact that when you're growing up it's harder for guys to even start out dating and gain some experience and understand what they still need to learn and things they're doing wrong because they're not even getting a chance. They know they're supposed to be dating but don't know how ( there are exceptions but the majority will struggle in high school and a good number in college as well)
It's only in your 30s when you have a life and you've figured a lot of things out where things begin to shift in men's favor but when you're 16 that feels like you're entire life that you're just struggling and struggling to get anywhere.
So most of the people who say this are young guys who are overwhelmed by life and the expectations that are coming at them.
I don't think its easy for a woman to find a real relationship, but I also don't think its easy for men either. I do however think its very easy for a girl to get laid and use sex as a weapon to try to get a guy hooked into being in a relationship with her.
Here are the facts
Men date down.
Women date up.
A woman typically want a man who earns enough to take care of her and her prospective children with a little bit of age on him compared to her. So he is well established. "I don't want no bum" doesn't come from nowhere.
A man typically wants a youthful, and pretty woman. He doesn't care about your job or what you make. You could be a mcdonalds crew member for all he cares and you don't have to be a supermodel, just pretty enough for him.
Richer wealthy men, the top percent, are notorious for using these facts to their advantage to get as much sex as they want. They have life experience, one woman isn't super special to them and they know women sometimes try to use sex as a weapon to draw them in.
Did you know that 50% of men aged 18-25 are virgins? I don't have a source, I saw it in a youtube video of someone commentating on an article that stated it. Its also true that you are going to be hard pressed to find any girl that is still a virgin.
I believe, and this is just me. If every single woman from the time they had interest in boys absolutely refused to have sex until marriage this would stop it dead in its tracks and we would all be able to be in lasting relationships more often.
This date up BS is so tired. You cowardly guys just use it as an excuse since you have no personality or yiu are so sullen and pessimistic that you repel women with your negativity and insecurity about money.
Not bs, its established fact, but ok
I read that garbage. It's nonsense. Utter nonsense. The thing is women make the mistake of chasing guys based on what they dream he could be like and men want shallow, materialistic women to loke them for who they are.
I’ll be blunt. I think some girls and women especially on GAG are fixated for example on a guys height. And to any female GAG user reading this who is HEIGHT means everything, are these females really going to mope and be that stubborn over a few inches if a guy is 5’8 and not 6ft. Imagine if women couldn’t get breast implants, imagine if women couldn’t wear high heels, imagine if women couldn’t put on makeup, she would look less pretty then. I never wanted it to get to this by insulting women this way but after reading bitchy comments from girls for years on GAG. I’m tired of the constant male hating, degrading a man’s value and equating everything to height. We live in a world today where women don’t care about marriage or kids soo ladies if you don’t want kids and don’t have a nurturing side to you where you can protect your kids which even female animals can do, why be fixated on 6ft+ men to protect you? We’re facing world war 3 and another Great Depression we may very well have to fend for ourselves. So yea, right now it’s easy for women and girls to get guys with dating apps like tinder, to social media, even in person. At this point I just want to go to heaven and be with God because I don’t like people in this world and I think majority of people in this world are hateful, racist, stubborn, shallow, disloyal people.
As a woman, I don’t think it’s hard for women to get a guy. However I didn’t know how hard it is for men. Sometimes I wished that I could actually think like an actual man.
The law of attraction suggests that the energy and mindset you emit will attract similar energies or people into your life. When you work on yourself, cultivating certain character traits or qualities, you naturally tend to draw individuals who share those traits or resonate with the energy you project. It's often about alignment between your inner state and the external connections you make.
If you put the work into yourself, you won’t even have to work that hard attracting partners, but a lot of us tend to be people pleasers, trying to impress others and forget oneself. (I am not referring to impressing someone you’re courting, that’s part of the work) Work on yourself, impress yourself first. 😂😂 and that doesn’t actually mean being self-centered either.
if you need to put work into yourself, that means you need to meet their "high requirements". thats just literally what you're trying to say
men like to say they don't have high standards. if i need to work on myself, that means those standards ain't low
Hun everyone attract to a type, everyone has a standard. You know what it is you want in life, and the type of person you would want to spend it with. In your post its sounds like you have had enough with the fuckboy type. Who are you attracting into your life? These are questions you should ask yourself. You seem to want to settle for less…!
I can’t really that question for you!
@altheavas
the point of my question is.. men like to claim their standards are low... im here to tell you they really aren't that low. if a girl has to work hard to get to your standard, your standards aren't low.
It’s definitely much easier for a woman to find her equal than vice versa. Plenty of 7 guys would happily date another 7. But lots of 7 girls hope to “date up” to 8s and 9s.
I am not just talking about looks but when you factor in intelligence, status and wealth women more often then not want to date up. Hypergamy is a real thing.
That’s why it’s tougher for men because we are not special just for existing. It’s much harder for us to date our true equivalent. We usually get shit tested if the girl believes the guy is on par with her.
There are a small percentage of women who get intimated by their equivalents and want full control and power over the lower level guy. They want little/no risk of him cheating. That’s not that common though.
Young women are definitely the prize in society. Much more over men, men are recyclable and disposable. Even when compared to an older man with success, a younger woman still has more worth and value in society vs a man. This isn't my opinion of course, it's how society values genders. Women indeed are special for existing and especially the young skinny ones.
@shadowowner most women either don’t realize or just do not want to accept that their sexuality in itself makes them valuable in society.
Deep down I think some feminists actually know this but they think just blatantly ignoring/denying this fact will make it magically go away.
@shadowowner although I will say a average looking guy does have more upward mobility in dating if he’s famous, skilled or rich vs. an average looking girl who has special talents.
The fat but famous Amy Schumers of the world aren’t going to be as popular with the opposite gender as the Seth Rogans out there.
Unattractive woman do have much more to overcome in dating vs unattractive men when it comes to other things they can improve. They will still get attractive male admirers but nowhere near as close as unattractive yet famous male celebrities getting attractive female attention.
[Plenty of 7 guys would happily date another 7. But lots of 7 girls hope to “date up” to 8s and 9s.]
hahaha you never seen a man who wants to date up? you ever saw old ugly men trying to go for women 20 years younger than them?
be honest with yourself, really
@shadowowner
yea... the guy who says he has "low standards" but yet is only willing to date young skinny women under 30. then he turns around and complains that women have high standards.
Again you failed at context. Didn’t read the details.
When I said 7 or 8s I did NOT just mention looks. It also includes wealth and status. A 40 year rich celebrity who is a 7 looks wise is on par with a hot 20 year old female if she’s a complete bum and not famous
@blueonblack22
you sure are inexperienced , aren't you?
there are broke 45 yr old men who only want men under 35.
there are single 50 yr old dads of 4 kids who refuse to date anyone over 35
@asker what anyone wants and what someone ultimately gets are two different things. Especially if you are a man.
I’m not delusional nor inexperienced. I make do with what I CAN control. I make good money, own real estate, exercise daily and diet right (still have visible abs) and I am involved with lots of volunteering. I dated a beautiful 21 year old fitness model for almost a year when I was 34. She liked me who I was too and it wasn’t for money. She used to cook for me (without asking) and even took me out for my birthday. It didn’t end well but that’s another story.
But I know luck was involved that scenario. Don’t expect to get that again but it happened.
But back to the point. There are things I can control in my life (my career, my fitness and diet habits, how I spend my free time) and things I can NOT control. But I am not going to use some crybaby excuse to stop putting effort into improve myself. I’ve gone through complete hell with something that happened to me 2 years ago. But I am NOT going to quit on doing productive action in my life.
But it sounds to me you are angry and frustrated that you are not getting the male attention you desire because you are heavy set. I can imagine that’s tough. But at least you have a problem that can be improved. You are still young too.
Hell I used to be a personal trainer years ago. I could help give you advice if you really wanted a lifestyle change.
@blueonblack22
girls have more options but not necessarily better options. Truth is... guys will accept any girl who is young, slim and pretty. They won't give any time of day to any girl who isn't any of these three things. The young slim pretty girls are the ones that are picky since she has so many options.
this is why guys claim women are "picky". they are only referring to the girls that they want to date.
older women, overweight women are way less picky. but men don't consider them to be options
@blueonblack22
this question was not about "how can i improve myself to get a date?".
this question is asked directly to men... "why do men say they have low standards when they're only willing to consider dating young, slim, attractive women?"
what if i told you that my standards were low but I would only consider dating tall , rich, attractive men?
It’s really simple response to that:
How often do men land women who are out of their league? Really how often do you see that happen? Lotto winners chance for men on that. But a scratch ticket’s chance for women on that.
Keep in mind that women often don't devote all their time -- or affection -- to one specific guy at any given time. As an ex girlfriend of mine once said, 'You can never get everything you need from one guy, so you have two or three guys, and each of them fills a different need. I'll have one guy that just fucks me, and that's it. Then I'll have a guy who I use to pay my bills and pay for me and my fuck buddy to go out on the weekends, and stuff. Usually, that guy only gets to lick me and hang out with me'
And women call men vile and complain about us?
yea but she can only do that if she is super hot. do you think the average plain jane can get guys to pay bills for her? haha nooo...
you would do absolutely anything for a hot girl cuz you're shallow.
you would pay a hot girl's whole year of rent just so she will go on a date with you every week.
@shadowowner
because you are vile.
@shadowowner How is she vile when guys are begging women to do things like that to us?
@billlewis
because she knows there are plenty of guys who are SHALLOW enough to do absolutely anything for a hot girl. men think hot girls deserves wayy more
"you would pay a hot girl's whole year of rent just so she will go on a date with you every week."
I'm not sure if that was for shadowowner specifically, but I can assure you I would never pay someone else's rent. I only date adults. Putting a roof over your own head is a basic life skill and the expectation from anyone I'd even consider dating. It's not like women are some endangered species so I have to settle for whatever baglady needs her rent paid for her.
She's jut a bitch. This is not the norm.
@BoopBoopBeep
just cuz you won't do it, it does not mean there aren't plenty of other guys who would do it.
i know plenty of guys who would do anything a hot girl asks for.
Because it is. There's a reason why there's cases of females who transition to males that suicide soon after because of the treatment (as a man) that they get. It's a whole lot different. Girls just have to post some pictures with some good angles and watch their inboxes flood. Then they have their pick of the crop. Whereas men have to send many messages to different girls and get ignored most of the time. Men do NOT have their inboxes flooded and usually have maybe a few girls at most that are interested in conversing. Girls will always have more attention than men and will always have the power in dating.
I really don't know what you mean by "work hard". When I want a girlfriend here is what I do:
- Read books on human psychology
- Watch videos on how to talk to women
- Go to the gym regulary to stay in shape
- Dress well and take care of my clothes so I can look good
- Speak multiple languages and partake in many hobbies
- Save up money to pay for dates, neglect myself so I can pay for others
- Approach a woman and risk humiliation, shame, and rejection
- Prepare all the conversation, the entire date, all the jokes
- Take her on the date, lead all the conversation, pay for the meal and entertainment
If you think spending 1 hour in make up per day is hard work, then I have news for you...
Finally the truth is coming out about thr ither 90% of women who were never blessed with good genes in looks and having a natural slim body, thick hair.. etc..
****Also, women don't get a "PASS" if we are not super skinny or beautiful. Doesn't matter if your funny, rich a good women a man literally will reject and pass you by for the naturally beautiful and slim one.
Guys fall in love with looks. Period. I am beautiful and am slightly chubby but I certainly am passed up. If I just lost 15-20 lbs I could open a wider net of men.
very true.
It's easy to find a guy who wants to have sex with you. It doesn't matter what you think you look like, there will always be some dude who wants to fuck you.
It might not be easy to get a guy worth being in a relationship with, but it's definitely easier for women than it is for men. Most guys don't have very high standards. Considering most women are attractive by default (some more than others, but most girls are still nice to look at) all you really have to do is take basic care of yourself and not have an awful personality (be agreeable/cooperative) Men don't care about what you drive (many dont even care If you don't drive) where you work, how much you make, etc...
guys do hate taller girls or overweight girls or older girls.
there's a lotta things guys hate.
I don't think most guys have much of a height preference, as long as she isn't taller than him, and most men are going to be taller than the majority of women.
Men generally aren't attracted to obese women, but you can be a little chubby. This is what I meant by women are just expected to take BASIC care of of themselves.
I know plenty of guys who actually like their women older and in fact, most those guys I know get turned down because the older women doesn’t want a younger guy for whatever the reason may be.
Obviously nobody is going to be fir everyone, but in my opinion women have an easier time with dating.
And "hate" is a weird word choice. You don't hate someone just because you dont want to date them lol
I honestly don't think guys have lower standards than girls. I'm gonna turn 30 in 2 years and I can already see turning off a lot of guys due to my age. I am a chubby woman and I get called pretty/ cute by some. Nobody ever approaches me. Its always the same girls who get approached: slim, pretty, gorgeous, young, under 30.
I'm 5'5'' and I've been criticized for my height for being too tall for a guy who is 5'8''.
I know for a fact men don't like older women. As a 28 yr old woman, I have never had a younger man be interested in me.
Men like to say that "women like older men". ok. men only like younger women. how often do you see men going for older women?
Men like to say "women only like taller men". yea... men also hate tall girls. they always prefer shorter women over taller ones... when was the last time a man gloried about how "big and tall" a woman was? never!!! he's always talking about "cute and tiny" she is.
Men like to say "women like tall men". yea... men also only like thin women... the glorified hourglass figure... do you really think chubby women have that kinda body?
I don't think that any gender has lower standards.
Its kinda really sick how so many guys like to say that its easy for a girl to get a guy. Dude, I've been looking for a man for so long. I never get approached. I go to bars, nobody cares to talk to me. Quit acting as if dating is so easy for girls. And from what I've noticed, its always the slim pretty young ones that get approached a lot. If you're anything other than that, you will not get approached.
I guess we live in very different places lol
I live in NYC. where do you live?
well you are wrong for a fact that men don't like older women. my wife is older than me. my mom is older than my dad. both their moms were old than their husbands. men do have far lower standards than most women. take care of yourself, bring me peace, be an addition to my life. that pretty much sums up the grand total of what guys are looking for. as far as being chubby if you are 5'5" and 200 lbs you aren't chubby. chubby would be around 140-150 ish. in fact most of the relationships I have seen that are healthy and happy the woman is a few years older than the man. not all of them but more than the reverse. thin and healthy or slim or even fit are not the same. most guys do not want thin women. they want healthy, slim or fit heck even curvy women. I doubt you have been criticized for your height that much given you are 1" above the average height for a woman. and the average man has 5" on you.
@JacobJordan
quit fucking trying to diminish what im saying. i know when i been criticized for my height. and i don't need you to tell me I never been criticized for my height. you don't know me so stop trying to make up my own life experiences.
@JacobJordan
men like you are picky as hell... but you are the only ones who like to complain about women being picky. For you, A woman is only worthy of hitting on if she is young slim and pretty... but then you turn around to say that you have "low standards".
wife response: child he is married already and no he isn't even slightly picky. He also has never complained about women being picky. he actually knows what he is talking about as for your being criticized he didn't say you hadn't been he said you likely hadn't been criticized that much. You came here asking why guys say it is so easy for women to find a guy and then you start arguing with nearly every single guy that comments. I am 42 my husband is 39. I am 5'4" I weigh around 45-50 Kg. based on how you immediately became extremely belligerent when he pointed out that you were wrong and then proceeded to immediately began to insult him I can't say I am all that surprised that people are not paying you a lot of attention. You are very disrespectful and very unwilling to actually take into consideration that what other people say may be correct. instead of getting so angry I would advise you to perhaps listen to what these men are saying because they are correct.
@JacobJordan
rare exceptions don't make the rule. don't try to make up my life experiences either. you know nothing about me
you are a very angry individual which likely contributes more to why you can't find a partner which is precisely why both I and my wife said what we said. we both know what we are talking about and rare exceptions? there is a large number of men that date older women. and have very little in the way of standards. not it is not enough to make it an average or a most but enough that your "factual" claim is in fact wrong. in addition you don't seem to understand what you are even saying. the majority of men do not have an issue with a woman who is 5'5" and that is a fact. yes some will take a strange issue with that but not nearly enough to make it even a qualifying data point. 60% of men are attracted to women older than themselves and there are numerous reports and sources that confirm that. if you wish to continue being disrespectful then don't be surprised if you come out of this experience with no answers if you want an answer then I recommend you lose the attitude and stop trying to argue with everyone who comes in with genuine advice.
@JacobJordan
why wouldn't i have the right to be mad when you're telling me that men "wouldn't" have criticized my height for being too tall?
you're basically denying my own life experiences.
you're biased.
JacobJodan, you and wife should just call it quits. She clearly already had her mind made up when she posted this "question"
@opinion owner
you certainly had your mind made up before you asked this question
@opinion owner
you certainly had your mind made up before you posted this answer. i meant
very true figured we'd give it one more shot but she clearly is not looking for an answer but looking to be disrespectful and then blame her problems on other people
again. they wouldn't have THAT MUCH
@JacobJordan
im not looking for answerer to doubt my own life experiences or for you to claim that most men prefer women older than them. have you seen how many men shit on women over 30 on GAG?
He never said most men prefer older women.
" a large number of men of men date older women. And have very little in the way of standards. It is not enough to make it an average or a most but enough to that your "factual" claim is in fact wrong."
That is what he said.
Reading comprehension skills: 0
@opinion owner
Zoosk research shows that 60% of men date younger women, and of that, 22% are attracted to women more than 10 years younger than they are.
www.top10.com/.../older-men-dating-younger-women-is-age-just-a-number
@opinion owner
Rare exceptions do not make the rule.
why is this so hard for you to admit?
www.regain.us/.../
www.audacy.com/.../study-finds-60-of-younger-men-fall-for-older-women
www.today.com/.../more-older-women-are-dating-younger-men-survey-says-here-t231858
www.ipsos.com/en-us/news-polls/age-gap-dating
I could go on but you made it very clear you are not looking for honest answers you are looking for people to affirm your life choices. stay miserable if you want or shut up and learn from those that know more than you. enjoy the factual sources that back up the fact that 60% of men are attracted to older women.
A large number of something isn't "rare"
@opinion owner
CHARTS: Guys Like Women In Their Early 20s Regardless Of How Old They Get
www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10
And that's wasn't even the point I was making. I was pointing out that he didn't say what you're claiming he said. You're seeing what you want to see
@opinion owner
60% of men are attracted to younger women.
And of that 60%, the vast majority (51%) like women who are 1 to 4 years younger than them, 27% like women who are 5 to 9 years younger than them, and 22% like women who are more than 10 years younger than them. That means 13% of all men dating online are looking for women who are more than 10 years younger than they are.
27% of men are attracted to older women.
However, unlike men who are attracted to younger women, men who show interest in older women don’t stray too far outside their age range. All of the men in that 27% prefer to date women who are only 1 to 4 years older.
www.zoosk.com/.../
@JacobJordan
those aren't even legitimate studies. You're just cherry picking shit that matches up with your own biases. I will present to you studies from MORE ACCURATE SOURCES.
@jacobjordan
according to PEW RESEARCH CENTER, Globally, women are younger than their male partners, more likely to age alone
www.pewresearch.org/.../
@jacobjordan
In contrast, males as they grow older develop a preference for women who are progressively younger than them. Actual marriage data reflect these preferences in a diverse array of historical and geographic conditions, including North Americans (Kenrick & Keefe, 1992)
www.sciencedirect.com/.../S1090513801000654
those are factual sources as are the sources you listed. of course I listed sources that back up the evidence I presented that is how sourcing works. the same reason you listed sources that back up your evidence. it isn't bias it is called citing sourced evidence. again if you want to remain miserable than continue arguing other shut up and learn something. all you are doing is proving why every one stays away from you. no man would WANT to be with someone that acts like you do. which is what both the other guy and I are saying. you have made up your mind and rather than educating yourself on your narrow and close minded view you are being disrespectful and rude to people that claim otherwise. and your entire post is clearly riddled with it. any guy that has claimed that it is the opposite of your claim you are disrespectful and all "woe is me wah poor me no one likes me or talks to me I am old and chubby" you are 28. work on yourself check your attitude stop whining. stop treating people poorly and maybe some poor sod will come up to you and marry you before you show your true colors
@JacobJordan
My sources are from legitimate research centers and PEER REVIEWED SCHOLAR ARTICLES while your sources are from random news paper articles written by biased people
@JacobJordan
you are the one being disrespectful and RUDE, trying to tell me that my own life experiences are invalid or illegitimate.
[you are 28. work on yourself check your attitude stop whining. stop treating people poorly and maybe some poor sod will come up to you and marry you before you show your true colors]
why don't you quit lying and just admit that the vast majority of men are shallow assholes who claim they prefer older women, but END UP MARRYING YOUNGER WOMEN?
why don't you quit pretending men love chubby older women while they are only liking hourglass figures on istagram or hot young girls on ONLYFANS?
@jacobjordan
Evolutionary psychology explains why men are usually older in heterosexual age-gap relationships.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../how-much-does-age-matter-in-relationship
"quit fucking trying to diminish what im saying. i know when i been criticized for my height. and i don't need you to tell me I never been criticized for my height. you don't know me so stop trying to make up my own life experiences" your very first reply to me
"guys do hate taller girls or overweight girls or older girls.
there's a lotta things guys hate." your first first reply to the anon gentlemen.
I won't embarrass you further by pointing out you haven't respectful to a single person on here. I am not lying I just am not as close minded or stupid as you are. you are very clearly generalizing all guys because you have some pathetic little hate streak going on. and THAT child is why you are single and miserable. several of us have tried to help you and instead you argue because if you accepted it then your delusion would be shattered. so stay miserable clearly you like it. the truly sad part is being 28 all you have to do is put in a little work to lose some weight if that is such an issue and then people would be lining up. oh well. your loss as they say. good day to you hopefully you realize before it is too late. if not too bad
@JacobJordan
why would i need to be respectful to an asshole like you who tries to "invalidate" someone else's experiences?
you're just an asshole... acting entitled to other people being nice to you.
i don't have to be nice to you if you're gonna be an assshole to me.
i don't have anything to realize. i already realized you're just an biased asshole who ENJOYS INVALIDATING OTHER PEOPLE.
You don't have to tell me what happens in my life... i know what happens in my life. its not up for you to say if it is valid or not.
@JacobJordan
you're delusional if you think anyone will believe in your fake facts about how most men love older women. its common knowledge men prefer younger women. this is proven along with legitimate research studies
if you say so child.
@JacobJordan
Proving your ill intentioned biases is not called being a child. its called being true to oneself.
@DollLover
I don't rely on random biased individuals over the internet to provide the truth. The truth lies in the data provided by legitimate research organizations or peer reviewed scholarly sources.
@asker you got it completely wrong about “guys hate taller girls”. This is by far the number one myth women believe about men. They think men obsess about height because they themselves obsess about it.
But we don’t. It’s like reason 19 out of 50 for what a guy is looking for. Where a woman it’s usually in the top 5 reasons and often a big number 2 (personality is virtually always number 1)
But guys do pay more attention to weight though. It’s indeed tougher for overweight girls but at least they can do something about that (tough but possible).
And modern women don't check the personality checkbox either. Lots of entitlement and misandry
@blueonblack22
Its not a myth. Guys always like to be at least 4 to 5 inches taller than their girl. I was mocked for being as tall as a man for a guy who was 5'8. I am 5'5
Have you seen how much shit men talk about older women on GAG? Most guys aren't interested in a woman over 30.
@shadowowner
Like you dont have a crappy personality and misogynist either?
the absolute refusal to accept that you are wrong when there are 5 guys in just this thread telling you that you are wrong shows you actually not only have no clue what you are talking about but you are not actually looking to educate yourself. you are just using this question as a way to spread hate for men because you feel entitled to a relationship without putting in any effort.
@JacobJordan
Because men will always lie to make themselves look better than they really are. Its hard to find man who is honest fair and true to himself.
@JacobJordan
[you are just using this question as a way to spread hate for men because you feel entitled to a relationship without putting in any effort]
Effort as in what? As in looking thin pretty and young?
@asker. You keep on conflating height, weight and now age in all of this. Don’t equate these issues. Focus on one at a time. I agree that age and weight can be s challenge for women. Height though isn’t. That’s s huge myth women just won’t let go off.
As for age I personally have no problem with dating women closer to my age. However instead of maturing a lot of them actually get worse when it comes to their personalities. You have a rough past? Well welcome to the f*cking club. But I don’t let that dictate my interpersonal romantic relationships and behavior.
About 4 years ago I had romantic interest in a woman a year older then me. I treated her like a complete gent. She proceeded to blow the friend zone decision completely out of the water. 100% confident I would be “okay” with being an orbiter.
Ironically I cut her more slack then I usually give younger women. I thought I was misreading her but the ugly truth was the truth. I thought a grown ass woman would know better that no straight man is going to approach a woman just “to be friends”. But she still tried to get away with it.
Anyway acting bitchy and bitter doesn’t make you younger nor is a way to age gracefully. I know things are tough and often unfair. I admit I occasionally ventilate on here. But I don’t act like a dbag in person around people.
@blueonblack22
Tall Height is a turn off for men. Vast majority of men will be comfortable dating a woman who is not at least 4 inches shorter than him.
Even 50 yr old men dont want a woman 8 years younger, they want a woman 18 years younger
Take a look at marriage data and numbers, older men tend to remarry women way younger than their first wife.
All this shit talk about men having low standards is a bold face lie.
Men have equally high standards or even higher standards when it comes to dating.
You dont see older women going for men richer than their first husband
@blueonblack22
Yea... you call your standards "low" when you only want a girl who is thin and pretty and under 30?
If you want to have this angry and bitter horrible outlook on life then suit yourself. I debate people with people and share opinions for the sake of ultimately finding a resolution. A realistic resolution. I don’t share my thoughts just to “express myself”.
You are 100% off base about height. Of reasons a man would date a woman it is reason number 19 out of 50.
Yes it is true that men prefer younger woman. Yes looks is a big part of it. But also I have zero patience with older woman having bad attitudes towards men in general. Sure I got some things I internally hate about modern western women. But I keep a lid on it and give people a chance. I’m not quick to judge. I control my thoughts and opinions in public.
Also about weight. Yes men do pay attention to that. But unlike height and age weight is one dynamic that CAN be improved. It’s very bad to improve but it’s possible with proper exercise and dieting.
*very hard to improve but it’s possible.
@blueonblack22
why is it so hard for you to just admit men have high standards?
@blueonblack22
[ Sure I got some things I internally hate about modern western women.]
yea... you hate modern western women... thats why you want to order an Asian bride from the Philippines... but while you're at it... you're also gonna make sure she is 18-22 years old, thin, young, nice body.
my wife is eastern european and older than me. I was 23 when we met and she was 26. she is 1 inch shorter than you I am 6' tall. she has been very proud of the fact she does not let herself become overweight. men do not have high standards which is why every guy has said that. and yet you are telling an entire gender they are "wrong" or "lying" I will point out once again the thing stopping you from getting a relationship is not your height age or weight. you are 5'5" which is 1" over the average height for women. you are 28 which is not even somewhat old. you didn't say your weight. in any event none of those are restrictions to finding a partner. your shitty misandrist attitude and hatred towards men is why no one wants you. you could be the sexiest woman on earth and with your attitude satan himself wouldn't want you.
@JacobJordan
rare exceptions don't make the rule. Repeating your personal story doesn't make the general rule , vast majority of men prefer young women , to be false.
Nice job compartmentalizing discussions and debates @asker. Cough.
I hate modern western women because they have been taught that victimhood is merit which you continually demonstrated throughout this entire conversation.
You just want people to agree with you and feel sorry for you? You don’t want constructive criticism? You don’t want to understand the difference between disagreement and “hate”? You want to keep doing the same thing and pretend things will magically change for you if you cry loud enough about it?
Well that’s not going to work because you refuse to put in the work to change and improve yourself. Misery loves company.
Hey I wish you the best out there. But until you acknowledge there are things you need to improve in your life then things will continue as is for you.
you keep saying rare exceptions when anywhere from 27% to 60% of men find older women attractive. and that range is from sources you provided and sources I found. so the data says you are full of shit. the facts of this thread also state that you want to be miserable because you are dismissing anything that doesn't confirm your pathetic little close minded view point. the reality is you. are. wrong. no matter how you look at this you are wrong. you are wrong with every generalization. you are wrong because you claim it is rare when it is not rare. you continue to approach this from the place of a woman which is emotional and lacks any semblance of logic and rationality. if every guy in this thread and on this question is saying the same thing and hell even all the women are saying the same thing who is right? you? or everyone else who are saying the exact same thing in different words? hint it isn't you. there are 18 opinions listed and well over 100 comments which not counting yours comes out to probably 60 comments all stating the same factual reality and yet you are still trying to argue you it.
@blueonblack22 see asker yet another guy telling you the exact same thing lol. just take the L woman.
wife response: I wasn't going to respond but at this point I would like to remind you I did tell you way ahead of this that my husband knows what he is talking about. and look at all the comments everyone here and in the opinions section is saying similar things. why are you so hell bent on saying they are wrong? or that they don't know what they are talking about? is it so bad if they do know what they are talking about? or are you just not wanting to change?
@blueonblack22
[I hate modern western women because they have been taught that victimhood is merit which you continually demonstrated throughout this entire conversation.]
western women are the victims of your high standards... why dont you just admit it? you will only date girls who are under 30, thin and pretty. then you turn around to say that your standards are SUPER LOW?
@JacobJordan
dude, why don't you just give up?
rare exceptions don't make the rule.
27-60% isn't rare. look up the definition of the word. actually don't you probably can't operate a dictionary. here you go. Rare: adj. (of an event, situation, or condition) not occurring very often.
now 27%-60% of men finding older women attractive results in a range number equaling 45m men to 100m presuming exactly 50% of the population is male. 45m is not a small number. given NYC where you live has 8.5m people or 1/9th the lowest percent. or 1.15m men in NYC are attracted to older women. but then again you are 28 so you aren't old which invalidates your first point. according the the nutrition journal 65% of men are attracted to women who are a little overweight. so if we base that off the population of NYC we have 2.76m men are attracted to women with some extra pounds. by your own admission you are called pretty so that invalidates that attempted point so all in all we can safely conclude that between 1m and 3m men in just NYC will find you attractive. and that is just 1 city. I have no qualms about decimating your fragile ego and mental thinking by dropping the math for every city in the US
Also western women are not victims of high standards they are largely victims of their own poor decisions. guys do not and never have had high standards. too admit that they do would be lying.
@JacobJordan
numbers vary by sample size. here's another peer reviewed research article:
Things aren’t so different in the United States. In 2009, the Panel Study of Income Dynamics, a survey of more than 5,000 families by the University of Michigan, found that 92.2 percent of men were taller than their spouses (in 1986, that figure was 92.7 percent).
fivethirtyeight.com/.../
@JacobJordan
[Also western women are not victims of high standards they are largely victims of their own poor decisions. guys do not and never have had high standards. too admit that they do would be lying.]
yea... says the biased man who tries to invalidate other people's life experiences.
lol you are so delusional. you are 5'5" I said it doesn't happen that much not that it doesn't happen. you have absolutely no idea what the word invalidate means either clearly. also what bias wombat? I pointed out the stats prove that a sizable number of men do not have an issue with a womans weight or age. and you have invalidated your own claims by saying you are 5'5" and 28 years old. woman the majority of men on EARTH are taller than you. you are still attempting to argue the factual reality pointed out by every single person on here. women have it easier than men across the board. that is a fact. you are also utilizing statistics that just further prove YOU. ARE. WRONG. and you are so close minded you don't even realize it. 50% of men in the US are 5'10" so that falls perfectly in line with the range of 1m to 3m men in NYC (where you live) that are attracted to women that are older than them, would be taller than you and would be attracted to you provided you are not obese. and this would apply to every city in the US. at this point you are no longer even arguing against the point you are just refusing to accept the facts. you are welcome to continue trying to provide more delusional evidence to prove that you are the sole person suffering because of things you aren't suffering from. because the reality is you are clearly have absolutely nothing in the way of personality to offer and THAT is why no one wants to be with you and no one will. you are an absolute train wreck in the personality department. you are close minded, argumentative (which would fine if you were right lol), you are using words you do not know the meaning of or even how they apply. even if you were drop dead gorgeous the way you act makes you repulsive. if you want a partner start there. lose the hate, lose the attitude, be more open minded, stop whining, stop being everything you currently are displaying to people here and maybe you'll find a man before you turn 70
All trolling aside, I have only been boner-killed by chicks for being too short for me. Never for being too tall. And I'm not even exactly 6 feet myself. I legit wouldn't want to fuck someone under 5 feet, that's gross for me. While I never saw a woman that's not fickable just because she's tall, never. If you go search up the world records for tall women... I tell you they're all very fuckable. And I wouldn't be ashamed of being seen partnered with them.
Maybe only weak dudes are afraid of tall women, feeling that she's dominant just because she's taller, and in your words being the same height must be a thing... it's not an issue for men who are stable in their masculinity. Same height or a few inches taller than me, or a few inches shorter than me, all sound very fucking attractive.
Though if she's a foot or two taller than me, then no, she won't fit into the same car with me. But still fuckable!
@JacobJordan
there's no study that proves vast majority of men prefer taller, bigger, stronger women.
maybe you're the rare exception. but you dont represent vast majority of men.
@DollLover
Most men hate tall, big, strong women.
I've had guys tell me that they won't date me anymore if I worked out and got stronger than them.
@DollLover
listen... if you're willing to pay a girl's rent just so this hot girl can date you... there's something terribly wrong with you mentally. it shows you're a very desperate shallow person with the wrong values in life.
you provided the evidence moron. 27% to 60% of men are fine with a woman being older. 65% of men are fine with a woman being a little overweight. the average male hit is 5'10" and that makes up 50% of the population. find evidence to prove otherwise or take the L clown. you are wrong and you have been wrong the entire time. just shut up and accept it little girl
@JacobJordan
I listen to research based facts , not some random angry dude from the internet.
and yet I used the evidence you provided and you aren't listening. you are still wrong just accept and quit being a misandrist because you are an insufferable person that no one wants to date. your personality is about as attractive as an oil spill
Because a lot of gals are successful at dating by doing nothing at all.
Because a literal table will get matches on Tinder if you make its gender female.
Because a guy can be a tall, handsome, well endowed championship level athlete and still undesirable to women.
Because there is way more single men than single women available.
80% of women will have sex with 20% of men, even if they must share. Good luck 80% of men. This is true in the animal kingdom too by the way. Most male mammals will die without mating.
because vast majority of men don't even want relationships nowadays. Guys are happy just sleeping around with women. Women want relationships thats why more of them want marriage.
and you got plenty of men on GAG claiming they don't want marriage... maybe thats why there are more single men than single women
You couldn't be more wrong.
Statistically the significant majority of men want a long term committed relationship.
Moreover this statistic shows that a significant number of women choose to be a side chick and women don't chase fuckboys because they seek marriage.
Stated Vs revealed preference.
The gals who just want to fuck are just not very vocal about it.
That's not true, girls have it way too easy to have sex or short relationships, which may not be true for the long term. A friend of mine, an average-looking girl who doesn't even wear makeup fucked 16 guys over three months after a breakup just by downloading Tinder. Some of the guys were old, very very rich, or known professional sportspersons. They provided her great lifestyle. During university, the ugliest girl in our class had relationships with two different guys, guys way above her looks. If you look for actual stats even in conservative countries women nowadays have more body count than men. That top 10% rule actually applies to men.
its easy for a woman to find a guy who will use her for sex, but hard to find a date.
At least girls have the option to have free sex. Guys if aren't attractive or have money get nothing, no sex or relationship. Guys in general stay single or have less body count than girls. That's even true in conservative countries.
The guys say the girls have it easy, but they mean easy to get sex. The girls think they mean get a relationship.
The girls say the guys have it easy, but they mean easy to approach/pursue a woman. They guys think they mean every aspect of dating is easy for men.
We are talking past each other
Guys think just because if we spread our legs we could get any guy we wanted without realizing that sure men will will fuck any girl but not be willing to date her.. So it is just as hard to find a guy who actually likes you as it is for a guy to find a girl to respond to them.
It is very easy to find a guy, but very difficult to find a quality man that you can have a decent future with. Those men are rare.
Or one you can have a good time with or is your type
I think @Nikki1989 tailored the question better. Women can get a guy super easy. Whether he's a man of caliber or not is a different story, but walk into a bar on a Friday night just before closing time and whisper "i'm horny" and you will get A man. maybe not a great man, but A man.
@BoopBoopBeep
its easy to find a guy who will use you for sex but hard to find a guy who loves you.
It is.
It is a fact.
Not, a relationship. Not necessarily finding the ideal man you WANT but any average girl could have sex any day she chooses to put herself out and offer sex to men.
Any average woman has lots of guys contacting her and trying to get with her.
They may not be the man she wants but she doesn't have to be alone if she doesn't want to be.
There has been quite a bit on hypergamy in answers. Now I hope it isn't controversial that men genuinely like 20's something female bodies.
Now a ~20's woman potentially has a wining lottery ticket. Her body, her beauty, her personality might be exactly what a high value man wants. Why wouldn't she wait to see if her lottery ticket is a winner.
Cinderella has been an iconic tale for a long time for a reason people.
i just know every time i go on a date with someone, they are just getting over the last thing and shopping around before they decide. but i realize it’sa generalization to say it’s easy for all women
its only easy for women who are young, slim and pretty.
i suppose. that can be subjective. there is a “fuckable” age that is pretty ephemeral and then there is everything else. i personally find way more than 10% of women to be pretty cute. but i get the struggle
i been waiting for guys to hit on me for the longest time. i get nobody but homeless people harassing me for money
maybe it’s not about getting hit on for you but simply meeting people. sometimes people who get hit on a lot get a pretty big head, which can be a turn off
i've been to bars multiple times , no guys wanted to talk to me.
i think you should reconsider your approach to meeting men assuming “find a guy” means a boyfriend. drunk guys hitting on you isn’ta good start to meeting a good partner, in my opinion. I don't know about other guys here but i personally don’t hit on women at all. i act friendly with them and maybe ask them out in time. women can take the lead too. if you want to get beautiful, find other ways to make yourself feel that way. there could be men who are interested in you who are not so outspoken. try to keep your chin up and stay positive.
obviously mens standards need to be high if you're telling me that i need to you telling me to get "beautiful".
i only get mentally ill or homeless men giving me their numbers. im not lying. im serious
i don't know why i just attract mentally ill or homeless people
it was a typo. it was supposed to be feel beautiful. i believe you, but it’s not the way you look or anything like that. honestly, it could have more to do with your personality. i’m telling you, you have to do your own thing and find what’s right for you. stop seeking it externally. you’ll drive yourself crazy.
@bededazzle
it has nothing to do with my personality. men who don't know my personality are either rejecting me or not hitting on me.
i've given up
well, that’s up to you. if you want to get hit on a lot, maybe you are sol. if you want a boyfriend, i assure you you are not. but you’ll have to get over this obsession and self defeating belief. i know it’s easier said than done. i’ve been there myself.
from my experience, its always the SAME GIRLS that get all the attention all the time.
on the other hand, i get none no matter what. maybe some girls are just meant to die alone. some girls are just meant to prosper. I'm ok with it.
But what im not ok with is when men say that all girls have it easy when it comes to getting a guy.
we don't. we really don't
i give up for now. i hope you can find peace regarding the situation and concern yourself less with others. good luck
Because guys prioritize sex. Women can acquire sex easily. Since most men want to avoid the obligations of a relationship ship to get sex they think women have it easy since they pretty much only need to be available and willing to get man on top of her. Men wish that merely being willing was enough for a woman to get under him.
Only easy for 10% of girls?
But 100% of F don't even have to make the first move, or be worried about having enough wealth, because let's be honest, no woman finds attractive a guy who is poor and don't have any relevant status, other than a woman who's in the same situation.
well i can say the same for men. men only want a woman who is young slim and attractive
It depends on what you mean by "get."
When it comes to sex, for example, 95% of women can find some guy that will gladly volunteer to have sex with them very easily no matter what she looks like. Not true for guys. They have to pay for that privilege. Girls are much more selective when it comes to that.
So if you mean "get" about sex. Men have to work much harder at that.
I'm not in that 10% but it's still pretty easy to find a guy. Guys are easy in general in my opinion. What's harder to find is a GOOD guy that really loves you.
its easy to find a guy who will use you for sex but hard to find a guy who loves you.
@love_conquers_lust Thank you ☺️
Make a dating app profile as an average man and see how many swipes it takes to get a match
My neighbor, a girl, had so many people trying to get with her that she would ghost men for sending an emoji and that was after she rejected the men she already rejected for being bald and or out of shape. This wasn't a girl most guys would deem attractive
Any guy for sex, yes. A good guy for a relationship, no.
the only real honest person on here
It’s still easier than guys because we have to do the asking and as long as you’re average looking or more you will definitely get asked out if you show interest by flirting or body language, and any woman can get sex if she wants because guys don’t usually refuse that
i never get asked out.
Maybe you’re not going out to the right places to get noticed or maybe you’re not dressed to impress and wear makeup when out. I don’t get asked out ever either but I’m a guy , you can ask out guys too though
yea... i need to dress to impress these guys... sounds like these guys must have very "low standards" *sarcasm.
Well you have to try if you want to meet someone
Is much easier for women to find a guy than for a men to find a lady. The average looking girl has the same chances to find a guy as an attractive woman.
Exactly its easy to find a guy as long as you look thin young and pretty. If you're not any of those, you have no chance
It would seem that tons of people are so fucking stupid that they can't do BASIC math.
The last time I checked for EVERY SINGLE hetero relationship that a girl is in, there's a guy in one too! And vice versa. So that would imply it's JUST AS DIFFICULT/EASY for men as it is for women. How about that?
I consider myself average but am told above average whenever I ask. But def not “model” or anything. But still I’ve always found it soo easy join any dating site and get 100s of messages in the first few days, you can just pick
because you're young, slim and attractive. Come back 15 years from now and see how many messages you will get
Eh probably lots still 🤷🏻♀️
You likely won't watch this but this explains a lot
https://www.youtube.com/embed/DZTIbHIsIYw of course things work for 18 yr old attractive, young slim girl.
lets put a 40 yr old , overweight woman and we are gonna see drastically different results.
Because its true. If u mean get quality guy 6 figures earner, handsome, young... etc then yes not many girls can get such a guy. But if a woman lowered her standards then basically even if she is 2 out of 10 she can get many guys.
Those guys assume it's easy for women to get laid because they're getting rejected by those 10% of women.
Were they to shift their priorities, maybe they wouldn’t be so sour.
its easy to get a guy to use you for sex, but hard to get a guy who wants a relationship with you
*those guys
Not easy, but easier...
average (somewhere in the under top 10%) women cannget a guy fairly easily. where as theose guys umder top 5% struggle unless they have lots of $$$$, and even then many struggle still.
Because it is incredibly easy for a woman to go do a guy, that's why. If you are alone that's on you.
because men only go for top 2% of all women.
Asker, you are projecting... badly.
its not called projecting, its called stating the truth
Asker... men are not delusional the way women are. You are talking about the top 2% of men, as the bottom 98% are invisible to you. Enjoy your boxed wine.
@krakenattackin
you said you won't date women over 30. women expire by 30
I never said that. I will say women are past their peak of Sexual Market Value by age 30.
@krakenattackin
yea well i heard you say that young women expire by 30 and they get replaced by the next generation of young women.
Asker... Men value youth, fertility, beauty, femininity, kindness, and virtue. Most women have hoe'd away all these attributes by age 30.
@krakenattackin
and why would you think these young fertile beautiful women will settle for a old, aging, bald fat guy like you?
I'm not talking about me sweetie. I am saying any girl who is a 4 or better is alone because she chooses to be.
Because it is. Because no matter what the girl looks like, she can get a guy, the only proviso being she can't get hung up on his looks.
its easy for a woman to get sex, but hard to get a date
The date comes as a prelude to sex.
It's getting the relationship, the second date, etc that's hard
Because it is. Because all she's gotta do is say yes and BOOK she found a guy
its easy to get a guy to use you for sex, but hard to get a guy who wants a relationship with you
Because it IS easy. Pick a guy. Walk up and say "I want a boyfriend. If you take me on dates, I will have sex with you." In ONE day, approaching no more than 10 guys, you will find someone willing.
i’ve seen fat and ugly girls get plenty of attention still for just existing, it may not be from the guys she thinks she deserves but it’s still something. An average looking guy could exist his whole life without getting hit on ever.
I still think that the sex drive of men tend to work in the favor for women getting more attention then men do.
especially since, if you're not under the age of 25/29, then you're undateable XD as if they're a catch.
Because it is. And with the technological advancements of the internet and dating apps, women can find the man they want to date easier than it's ever been
Look at your Inbox, how many new texts do you get per day? If I'm lucky I get 2 per day. Otherwise bupkis!
Your Honor, the Defense rests!
i just got rejected by a guy today from the dating app
who said it was 1 rejection? i've been rejected plenty of times before. you need to stop assuming random shit
@fenixg45
i don't assume random shit. only you do
People like to think they have it worst than others.
Because on average it IS much easier for women. Most women are honest enough to admit that. Why aren't you?
Because it isn't. If you're not young , thin, pretty , you won't get hit on
The only ones who admit that are women who are YOUNG THIN AND SKINNY.
you think a 40 yr old chubby woman will agree with you? NO
The same is true of older, fat and ugly men, but moreso.
There is a reason why only 34% of women are single but a whopping 63 % of men are. You may not reaslize it, but you women have it much easier in dating.
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@opinion owner
your study is biased. it only talks about young women , not older women.
of course young women are never single. Like I said, women who are YOUNG, THIN AND PRETTY are never single.
if you're older, overweight woman, you will always be single.
The VAST majority of younger women have it much easier in the dating world than the VAST majority of younger men. When women get older they lose that advantage, and that's when they start becoming bitter about how "unfair" it is for women. Do you not see the irony in that?
Ugly people have it harder, and that goes for both sexes. But during the age range when most people are should be seriously dating and trying to find a mate, women on average have an overwhelming advantage, but most squander it and then get bitter later on.
Here's a dose of reality for you. We as a sociaty have done women no favors by telling them they can have it all by focussing on their careers to the exclusion of serious dating to find a life partner while they are younger and in their prime. It has led to a condition where older women are resentful because they can't find a good man to settle down with because they have reached an age where they are at a significant disadvantage in dating before they even try. And men are resentful because they can't find a good woman while they are younger so they have essentially given up on serious dating during their 20s.
It's a fucked up dating world you women have created for all of us. But you'll forgive me as a man if I have no sympathy for you.
@opinion owner
girls have more options but not necessarily better options. Truth is... guys will accept any girl who is young, slim and pretty. They won't give any time of day to any girl who isn't any of these three things. The young slim pretty girls are the ones that are picky since she has so many options.
this is why guys claim women are "picky". they are only referring to the girls that they want to date.
older women, overweight women are way less picky. but men don't consider them to be options
Because it is. Even if she's not an "instagram model" as you put it
so why can i ever get a guy to approach me?
@grega239
people lack confidence because they are ugly. do you really expect the ugliest person on earth to have the most confidence?
nobody gives a shit about how much confidence you have if they aren't attracted to you.
Men do not like slim pretty girls. We like curvy women with giant leg muscles and huge boobs. Get this myth out of your head.
girls have more options but not necessarily better options. Truth is... guys will accept any girl who is young, slim and pretty. They won't give any time of day to any girl who isn't any of these three things. The young slim pretty girls are the ones that are picky since she has so many options.
this is why guys claim women are "picky". they are only referring to the girls that they want to date.
older women, overweight women are way less picky. but men don't consider them to be options
so you said guys will accept any girl ok then.
Now please get into your head slim and pretty is far from thd truth. Breast tissue and leg muscle in tight clothes and nothing else.
Because it is. All you have to do is have a vagina and exist, and you are better off than 80% of men alive.
Let me ask you do you think it's easier on average for a girl to find a guy compared to us finding ladies?
All the girl needs to do is show some ass, legs, or tits , and BOOM!
So you're suggesting that slim Instagram models don't have to work out?
Bitch and jackass can find each other whoever more fake
I DEFINITELY DON'T ACT THAT WAY
Because of society and social media pressure
You have that backwards honey.
Cause simps exist
never seen a guy simp for me
no guys hit on me ok?
u acting like all girls get guys walking up to them... i never get them.
[Really it's just not the guys you want to like you I guarantee it.]
yea... a bunch of ugly guys or homeless people are the only ones that go for me.
YOU ARE SO RIGHT.
Guys don't understand it.
Just cause it feels like it's so hard for guys
Incel mindset thats why.
It is so
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