An ex friend says im constantly pushing people away?

[Anonymous]

I'm curious on the fact on why is she being negligent on the fact of how these so called friends have treated me over & over again through the years INCLUDING HER... to the point I finally learned self respect and confronted them on the next fuck up they did and ended up x'ing them out of my life?

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that everyone has their own perspective and experiences, and your ex-friend may have a different view of the situation than you do. However, it's also important to consider the context of your interactions with these friends and whether or not their behavior towards you was healthy and respectful.

If you feel that these friends have repeatedly mistreated or disrespected you, it's understandable that you would want to distance yourself from them in order to protect your own well-being. It's important to set boundaries and prioritize your own self-care, even if it means cutting ties with people who are not supportive or respectful towards you.

That being said, it's also important to take responsibility for your own actions and behavior in relationships. It's possible that you may have pushed people away in the past, either consciously or unconsciously, and it may be worth reflecting on why this might be the case and how you can work to improve your relationships in the future.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide who you want to surround yourself with and how you want to interact with others. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to surround yourself with people who respect and support you.

[Wise4myage]

Id say you did the right thing.