I am your average lonely college student. All I want in life is someone to love me, and for me to love them back. However, whenever someone makes a move on me, I find myself pushing them away. I am also terrified to go out and meet people, so I have trouble breaking through to anyone. Is this normal? Is there any way to fix these issues?
Put yourself in more social situations and open up more. Find yourself a really fun group to be around and you'll notice a billion changes about yourself. It's a journey but once you're at the end of the tunnel you'll be glad you did it, both for yourself and for dating
That is not normal (to be so avoidant). You really want to talk to a therapist about this and to get some assistance in developing coping strategies that will allow you to keep these feelings from ruining your daily life. You're going through big life changes and will be in the working world pretty soon, so you don't want to have this hanging over your head.
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Fear of ultimately bring rejected and pain from loss.
It sounds like you might suffer from issues of a low sense of self worth.
Get professional help
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