I am starting to be friends with this guy. He really cares a lot about me for whatever reason. He cares about what I think of him and always respects what I say and he even says wow a lot when I say something even if it’s not that profound. I started liking him and as a result I acted all moody and started pushing him away. I apologized for my rudeness but I am keeping my distance because I am trying to deal with my feelings because I don’t think he feels the same and I don’t want to ruin the friendship. Thinks are a bit odd now and I think he might suspect something. He is still very sweet though. I even called him my brother to emphasize that it’s okay, we are just friend and when he tries to hug me, I would give him a high five or something like that, he gave me my high five but then hugged me anyways. The other day, he caught me looking at him and I didn’t look away and neither did he, it was awkward. Any ways, no matter how rude I think I am to him, he always says hi and hugs me wheb he sees me. I don’t get it. It’s not like we have known each other for that long. I am a bit upset and jealous now because he started hanging out with this girl. We were at a party and I left earlier than everyone else. My friend told me that he and this girl were the last people to leave and they were talking the whole time. I know she likes him, she has always liked him but he didn’t like her before but he might now, I don’t know. That is one of the major reasons I keep my distance in case he likes her and I don’t want to be heartbroken. Lol! Yeah I am feeling a bit insecure in this situation. Why does he care so much about me if he likes someone else, it doesn’t make sense. I decided to let it all go and be friends if he decides to date this girl.
Why does he care so much about me when I know he isn't attracted to me
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