All of my life some people are happy to see me but the next, they completely ignore me. I know I can be annoying at times but I’m actually a very sweet young lady. School wasn't that great for me it still isn’t. I was ignored a lot and overtime I said hi, peers would pretend they didn’t hear me or flat out ignore me and say hi to the next person. They never messes with me because of my size. I was 5’8 and 260lbs in middle school. Most of my peers were terrified of me and wouldn’t talk to me. I only had one best friend who was there for me. High school wasn’t any better. High school was horrible. My best friend started hanging out with another group of friends and started ignoring me in the beginning of 10th grade. I tried talking to her but she ignored me. Most were happy to see each other on the first day of school but nobody gave me a hug or said hi to me….. at all and that crushed me. Even my classmates from sped Ed gave me a dull hi and most hugged and hi fives each other. My best friend ended up in a different sped in class but we attended the same high school. I was trying to hang with her like old times but she kept pushing me away and ignored me. Then one day she yelled at me that she didn’t want to be friends with me anymore and I’m too blind to get it. She also says I’m a total nuisance to everyone around me with my stupid obsessions over my interests and she wants different things and trying to get away from me. That crushed me. I am 24 and autistic. Nobody at work is that fond of me either and most kids won't talk to me, some did.
I’m over here crying because I was told once that I’m the person or friend NOBODY likes. I thought everyone would be happy to see be but I’m heartbroken. 💔😔😤😭😭
Why do I get ignored by most people and they’re never happy to see me?
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That's a hard question to answer especially bc I don't know you personally. I would think it would be hard for anyone that doesn't know you why not ask the people that avoid you. They should give you some insight
I tried too but they won’t tell me why? I always explained about my best friend, well ex best friend. Nobody likes me. I don’t know if me being autistic is an annoyance to them.
I mean maybe but I don't know.
I just don’t know what to do anymore. I got told to lower my expectations but I don’t have high expectations.
I don't know fuck people love yourself.
Wow someone's got some pent up issues from the past. Have things gotten better since you've grown up?
Well somewhat but it’s still happening. I don’t understand. I know I can be shy and some people me I’m intimidating and unapproachable but I’m actually nice, sweet and helpful but I still get ignored.
I'm really sorry. That's why I try and say "hi" and be nice to people even when they're being shy