What does "It's not you, it's me" mean?

LeeannaDD
Had one of the worst nights of my life. My husband of almost ten years said he's not "in love" anymore. He keeps saying things like "Its not you, it's me", "you didn't do anything wrong", something is wrong with him and he can't give me what I need. I don't want to lose him. I'm still very much in love. I think he's just very depressed. He's not leaving but says he wants space to figure out what he wants. I don't know if I should try to convince him to seek help or just let him leave me... I'm scared there's something he's not saying and that's all just bs so he doesn't have to feel bad about wanting a divorce.
What does "It's not you, it's me" mean?
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