Should you give another chance to a remorseful ex who cheated on you?

[blahdimirputin]

My ex is autistic and was very controlling when we were in a relationship. He would prevent me from being in touch with my guy friends and force me to speak more to my female friends instead. Since he had autism and a bunch of other mental illnesses, I gave in to a lot of his demands. Anyway, two months ago, he intentionally slept with his friend to hurt me, because I had met a guy friend of mine. My ex now says he understands what he did was wrong and wants us to get back together. I told him there's no point in even trying.

[D_Bone_Steak]

So um... you get into relationships with dudes like this? You've made it clear he's mentally retarded, but you're the chick hooking up with him. Just saying.

[blahdimirputin]

A lot of adults have autism. That doesn't make them mentally retarded. He's in fact got a very high IQ.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Okay... so mentally fantastic... whatever. You're still choosing to get with that all on your own.

[MountainMetal]

If you told him there's no point in trying, I would leave it at that. Because there is no point in trying

[Flower7]

No, don’t try with him. He has a lot of issues but that’s not your problem and you shouldn’t have to be subjected to bad treatment.

[Vesuvius87]

It's best for you both to go separate ways. He has too many issues and trust is hard to regain after getting cheated on.

[Vesuvius87]

Thank you for MHO

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I once had a man,

or should I say,

that he had me.

This bird has flown.

and life is too short to give 2nd chances to people who were perfectly okay with losing you. I haven’t been cheated but I was broken up with. He might regret but I won’t be waiting to know that.

[BlackJeep]

You shouldn't give that guy another chance. It shouldn't be too difficult to find someone better

[itsalyssaagain]

No no no. If someone cheats you they don’t love you nor respect you.

[Nikki1989]

No, it is really not worth it. Move on.

[Iron_Man]

If it was something else yes, probably but once a cheater always a cheater

[Anonymous]

let him bust on your face if you actually forgive him, its the only way

[comekitty]

Personally, no, I would not try again

[In_Trance]

Nope