If your current lover cheated on you would you give them another chance?

[Smc08]

Yes

No

Doesn’t apply/came for results

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Cheating is never an "accident" that the cheater didn't mean to do.
2. Cheating does not happen in an instant; there is always time to reflect on what is happening and decide that it is not right.
3. There should never be any reason to doubt whether cheating is acceptable.
4. Cheating happens because someone chooses to make their immediate physical gratification ahead of a promise - what was supposed to be a sacred promise - to their partner.
5. Usually, cheaters are sorry. . . but only if they are caught.

I see no reason to give a second chance to a cheater. It would only send the message that she "got away with it" once and she can get away with it again.

[Unit1]

Usually, cheaters are sorry. . . but only if they are caught.

😁👌

[AimeeKyle]

Maybe. It would depend on the specifics: when, why, with whom, what happened and were they truly remorseful / answering all questions without expressing negativity to me during my questions. The key though….. if you can or cannot get over it…. Rip the bandage off quickly and either move on or continue to positively move forward.

[Agape93]

Not a chance in hell. You betray me, we are done. Permanently.

[Anonymous]

I'm Catholic so don't believe in divorce. Might live apart

[AmeerX]

🙄 I wonder why is the divorce rate high in Christian countries.
I hope your man doesn't do it for your sake.

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX religiously we would still be married even if legally divorced.
Divorce rate is higher in Christian countries because women have a choice unlike say in Pakistan where if a woman left an abusive husband the police would bring her back.

[AmeerX]

🤣 no way. Where did you get that information?
Actually a lot of my cousins are divorced both boys and girls. I don't think what you read about Pakistan happens here. In fact, usually girls get husbands in jail for trying anything after divorce. In western countries ex wives are pretty chill but not here. They are usually very hostile divorces with lots of drama.

How are you still married religiously if you are divorced legally?

[Smc08]

@AmeerX so basically your dissing our country (s) because we deal with divorce better? Sounds like it’s worse where your at and your just being a hater about it because you wish it easier. I’m glad people are civil about it here. I can at least say that much. That’s probably why it’s higher here. People aren’t trying to force each other to stay.

[AmeerX]

No, I actually appreciated it. I think it is nice people get a long way better then in our country 🙂.

I actually desire it like you described it and how I heard it from friends in Germany)). Like my uncle. He has 2 ex wives and a girlfriend. All are happy and there is no drama.
Sorry, I was just thinking about why she said she would still be married to her husband if she got legal divorce.
And I feel how they treat the women in this divorce aspect is much better and closer to the religion. Despite divorce it is up to the wife if she wants to leave the home even if it is not in her name. Provided there is no bad blood. I mean the husband isn't trying to hurt the wife.

I really didn't took it in a negative way.

But I am sure the information about police getting wife back to husband is false. Never heard anything like that 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX a recent survey In Pakistan found that most Pakistani men found it perfectly acceptable to gang rape homeless Pakistani boys.
Please stop.

[AmeerX]

Where are you getting that information 🙄. And no government cracked down on criminals with such mentality and gave them death penalty

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX you are trying to deny and explain it all away. https://youtu.be/1Uykffu-jKU

[AmeerX]

Okay.. 👌.
230 million people. And I am just one of them. If you think I am just like the tapers you are just welcome to report me. I am not like them. Majority aren't like the criminal scum you are mentioning.
I am not apologizing on there behalf. They are responsible for there own deeds and I am for my own.
Clearly, I never wished to go to Europe even with it's liberty and high standards of living and law and order.

If for some reason you still want to hate someone else for another deed then I can't stop you. What do you want to call me Pajeet, perhaps those famous bobs jokes. Or some other slur like brown boy etc.

Because I am happy where I am and I like Russians for this very reason. Very few people say such pathetic things to us and then Europeans call us bad names even though we never touched there lands once. Neither have I don't anything like that in my country.

I may have a 100 faults but raping and pedophile isn't one of them. God I punched and broke my friendship with a guy over this back in the days because he was saying mean things about girls in front of the whole class 🤣. Wasn't Andre Tate detained for that pedophile stuff already?

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX so you are saying there are 40 million Pakistani men who would rape and gang rape
young homeless boys.

[AmeerX]

No , I am not saying. Stop racial profiling. And I already cleared if you find such men just report them to your Police. I have no issue with that. And we don't have this type of mentality. Criminals exist everywhere. They could be in my backyard for all I know.
You can talk about it but that figure is highly exaggerated and we don't do disgusting things like that.

And If you like to know, let me add that women also fake rape and entrap men in our country quite a lot. They will then keep remanding the case in the court and the poor fellow will be in jail without trial for many years if they like. It is also common but you don't see the hype because you are not shown that. Those who have been touched by the oppression truly know it.

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX I don't know what race these 40 million child rapist Pakistani men who live Pakistan are, is it possible they are Chinese?

[AmeerX]

Irish girl, if you have the data why not send it to the UN. 40 million predators of child mean they are a threat to human race as we speak.

I don't deny people like that exist but the figure is about 17 % of general population. And yes we have a Land owner who is this fucked up and we are trying to evict him from his lands. Guess what? It might surprise you. He pays money to police and his brother lives in Canada sending and supporting him with Canadian Dollars too. He doesn't do with children, his wife left him but the bastard is on to this despicable deed all his life 🙄.

[AmeerX]

And he uses girls to make fake cases against other people too. Girls willingly oblige for the money

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX agreed it a huge number. I saw it when my family lived in the uk.

[AmeerX]

The number is exaggerated. My point is that is like 40% of male population. And there isn't that many homeless children even.
I told you one case and we are fighting that guy and his followers in my own area. Farmland actually.

[AmeerX]

Anyhow I am not defending if anyone does anything disgusting like that

[Opinion Owner]

@AmeerX that are hundreds of thousands of homeless boys in the cities of Pakistan. The numbers don't matter as gang rapists are sharing. Like in one story a bus driver stopped the bus and he and his 20 male passengers all brutally raped a young homeless boy.

[AmeerX]

Yikes, I don't want to know. İ hole those 21 or so guys go to hell. Where do these people even come from.

God I hated my country but everyday I just hear a new low.
I think brother was right I am just living in a fool's paradise. I don't think I can do no matter how much I try.

But I don't think it is still common as you just said I hope not.

[AmeerX]

I have to do something to make my country a better place though. For the future.

[Finchie40]

No, once the trust is broken especially after cheating took place that relationship bid over for me , taking a cheater back is setting yourself up for failure , you are going to feel like they are going to cheat on you again or you might end up cheating on them for revenge , so why put yourself in that situation , the only way I can see taking a cheater back is if you know for a fact that you were a big part of the reason they cheated , I know people cheated because their partner treated them like shit , denied them intimacy and affection constantly, criticized and belittled them constantly, So I don’t blame a person for cheating on someone like that. But if the partner did nothing wrong and their partner still cheated on them? Then what would be the point of taking them back?

[AviatorTom]

We all make mistakes. If she told me about it and felt sorry, I would give her a second chance.

[Anonymous]

FUCKING HELL FUCKING TO THE MOTHERFUCKING NO WAY IN HELL OR GALAXY!

I am not a degenerate fucking CUCKOLD to tolerate this shit in my life. GET YOUR SOILED CHEATING CUNT OUTTA MY ZONE. BITCH!

[Smc08]

I really hope your comments aren’t directed at me. I didn’t do it! 😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Of course not.
My ex gold digger girlfriend however.

[Smc08]

Oh. Ok. Vent on then. My bad.

[Opinion Owner]

No. I am beyond that.
There are good girls out there, that i rather cuddle with.

[Smc08]

This is true. Good for you for getting past it and not letting it affect your love life in the future. It sucks but what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Good luck, I hope the next girl is loyal to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yes. I plan to make the next (good) girl, who loves me very happy 😍 and I can deliver that.

[MementoMori777]

That just sounds like a waste of time at that point, if they did it once then they will get the urges again, taking them back is a show of weakness and they will probably believe you'll give them another chance if the urges are really picking at em

[JustinTheGreat]

Already gave him another chance so if he did it again then we’re done

[God_of_Thunder]

Can I still answer if my most recent ex cheated on me, and that's why she's an ex?

Or did that answer the question? 🤷‍♂️

[OddBeMe]

Nope. It’s an addiction or lifestyle. And sex isn’t the sin, so to speak. Couples can be open or whatever. But it’s the disloyalty cheaters have. Done. Can’t trust them. Period.

[Wiredone]

I know my wife would never cheat but if she did I'd give her a second chance. I believe in giving people a second chance.

[Anonymous]

I'm that "other" guy who help girls to cheat.
So this question is irrelevant for me.

[mrmonogamous]

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[Kelly6]

Yea I would forgive

[misogynistic_pig]

No.

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[Blackcupcake]

nope

[Lookitsmadmax1994]

One and done

[Anonymous]

Only for you.

[Jack0ff779]

I don't know