Important rules for breaking up:
Don't put off breaking up when you know you want to
Prolonging the situation only makes it worse
Tell him honestly, simply, kindly, but firmly
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big tear-jerking scene
If you wanna date other people say so
Be prepared for the boy to feel hurt and rejected
Even if you've gone together for only a short time and haven't been too serious
There's still a feeling of rejection when someone says she prefers the company of others to your exclusive company
But if you're honest and direct and avoid making a flowery emotional speech when you break the news
The boy will respect you for your frankness
And honestly, he'll appreciate the kind of straight forward manner in which you told him your decision
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I think kindest way is have sex one more time in a sexual relationship. Had one like that one time and she was crying and asked me to stay the night with her, and we even took bath together and she was on her period and made water sorta bloody (not that much!). Then do sex one more time in bed and kiss and hug in the morning and gently say goodbye.
Quickly and straight to the point.
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It's all the same result, does it really matter?
Be honest, nice and upfront.
Get them to think that if they’re idea. Gently subtly do things that piss them off and make them want to leave you first.
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3 simple words "I AM GAY"
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